Libras Vibin' Out w/ Kwame' aka The Vibe Creator
in this episode we are joined with a special guest and our buddy Kwame' aka THE VIBE CREATOR. We do the unthinkable and hand over our grown baby WAWETA on it's 18th birthday and let Kwame' decide what are we even talkin about! Tune in to see what he has in store for us!
The momentous occasion of WAWETA's 18th birthday marks a significant milestone, as we relinquish control to our esteemed guest, Kwame', also known as THE VIBE CREATOR. In this extraordinary episode, we engage in a thought-provoking dialogue that challenges the boundaries of our usual discussions and allows Kwame' to dictate the narrative. Our conversation promises to traverse uncharted territories, as we delve into topics that are both unexpected and deeply resonant. Listeners are invited to partake in this unique exploration, where the spontaneity of Kwame's insights may lead us to profound revelations. Join us as we celebrate this pivotal transition and uncover what intriguing themes Kwame' has in store for us.
Takeaways:
- In this distinct episode, we relinquish the control of our podcast to our esteemed guest, Kwame', marking a significant milestone as we celebrate our 18th episode, akin to the metaphorical coming of age.
- The conversation delves into the essence of vulnerability, showcasing how it serves as a superpower for both the hosts and the guest, enabling deeper connections and authentic exchanges.
- Throughout this episode, we explore the complexities of being a Libra, particularly the incessant overthinking and indecision that often accompany this zodiac sign's quest for balance and harmony.
- Listeners are encouraged to embrace the notion that every decision is an opportunity for growth, underscoring the importance of trusting oneself amidst the uncertainties of life.
Transcript
Are you excited?
Speaker A:Are you excited to be here?
Speaker B:I am, actually.
Speaker B:You know, I was really looking forward to this.
Speaker B:I mean, I was looking forward to it, you know, before, but, you know, I was very looking forward to it.
Speaker B:One of the best things that I do is have good private conversations.
Speaker A:So apparently conversation, but not signal.
Speaker C:I was like.
Speaker C:Cause you definitely just said.
Speaker B:Oh.
Speaker C:And that's okay.
Speaker A:That's okay.
Speaker A:It's where we are.
Speaker A:You know, we just gotta move.
Speaker A:We gotta work with it.
Speaker C:We gotta roll with the punches.
Speaker A:Yo, you ready to get started?
Speaker C:Sure.
Speaker C:Only because I'm not feeling any of the to do's as far as the segment, but it's okay.
Speaker C:Once we're there, I'll be ready.
Speaker A:You, seriously?
Speaker C:But I'm always that way.
Speaker C:And it's okay.
Speaker C:It's okay.
Speaker C:We know me.
Speaker C:We've been doing this for a while.
Speaker A:We like Tasha Smith.
Speaker A:You know, who you work for.
Speaker A:What's up, King?
Speaker C:You knew you.
Speaker C:But it's the fact that you knew.
Speaker A:I did.
Speaker C:Go ahead.
Speaker A:But I still.
Speaker C:You did.
Speaker B:Mm.
Speaker A:Ready?
Speaker C:My bad.
Speaker A:Five.
Speaker C:Hold on one second.
Speaker C:Please be patient with us.
Speaker C:We.
Speaker C:We do this and.
Speaker B:Yeah, trust me, I know.
Speaker C:Okay, go for it.
Speaker A:Listen, listen, listen, Y' all here getting microphones and sounding foolish.
Speaker A:This is not just another podcast where two men are talking about bullshit and don't make any sense.
Speaker C:Wavita.
Speaker A:This is.
Speaker A:This is a real conversation for real adults.
Speaker C:Wah Pizza.
Speaker C:What's waita?
Speaker A:What are we even talking about?
Speaker C:What are we even talking about?
Speaker A:Listen to it now, because you want to know what we're talking about.
Speaker A:What's up, gang?
Speaker C:What's up, sir?
Speaker A:And what's up to all you out there?
Speaker A:Welcome to the what Are We Even Talking About Podcast.
Speaker C:Where I don't know where I am in the script.
Speaker C:I'm sorry.
Speaker C:One more time.
Speaker C:I got it this time, I swear.
Speaker A:What's up, King?
Speaker C:What's up, sir?
Speaker A:And what's up to all you out there?
Speaker A:Welcome to the what Are We Even Talking About Podcast, where every other week.
Speaker C:We take turns choosing the topic unbeknownst to the other.
Speaker A:So the conversation is authentic and unrehearsed.
Speaker C:And most importantly, a safe space for friends to be vulnerable.
Speaker A:So go ahead, y'.
Speaker B:All.
Speaker A:We got a special treat for y'.
Speaker A:All.
Speaker A:So get your cocktails and mocktails ready and find out.
Speaker C:What are we even talking about?
Speaker C:Don't worry about it, because you never thought.
Speaker C:You never thought.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:What do we even talk about?
Speaker A:All right.
Speaker A:It's your boy pj, AKA Philip James, AKA my birthday next week.
Speaker C:That's right.
Speaker B:I know that's right.
Speaker C:Yes.
Speaker C:And it is Christopher.
Speaker C:Also known as King Christopher.
Speaker C:Never Kris.
Speaker C:Sometimes daddy depends on the mood or the day.
Speaker A:And ladies and gentlemen, I don't know if you hear, but there is, once again, two times in a month.
Speaker A:So, yeah, we have a guest, and I'm really excited to introduce our buddy.
Speaker A:He is a creator, he is a soul worker, and most of all, of course, since he's here during Libra season, he's a Libra that doesn't like people.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:Because most Libras really don't like people, you know?
Speaker A:Yeah, we.
Speaker B:It's something that I've had to, like, really, like, understand about myself.
Speaker B:You know what I mean?
Speaker B:Like, it took a while, and now I'm there and I can say it comfortably.
Speaker B:You know what I mean?
Speaker B:I don't like anybody.
Speaker A:Ladies and gentlemen, welcome Kwame to the show.
Speaker B:Such a great introduction, you know?
Speaker A:Welcome, welcome, welcome.
Speaker A:We happy to have you here.
Speaker A:So, okay, really quick, what's your social media?
Speaker B:So you can find me on Instagram, kwametheone.
Speaker B:It's K W A N E T H E O N e. Or on TikTok Ibecreator v I B E C R E A T O R. As.
Speaker A:You all know, this is Libra season, so obviously our guest is a Libra.
Speaker A:Because you are our guest.
Speaker A:I'm gonna ask this question to you first.
Speaker A:How was your week?
Speaker B:Mm.
Speaker B:You know, it's been a fine week.
Speaker B:It's been a fine week.
Speaker B:I mean, there was no.
Speaker B:Nothing like, personally like that, you know, was insane or whatever, but there's a lot of insane things happening around me, and I'm affected by it, and so I'm bothered.
Speaker A:Ooh, yeah.
Speaker A:Cause you said affected, like, with the A. Ooh, yeah, Yeah.
Speaker B:I can't help.
Speaker B:I can't help.
Speaker B:I mean, we're living in this such an interesting time right now.
Speaker B:I don't see how people cannot be affected unless you choose to not participate in the reality or live in a delusional space, which is.
Speaker B:I get it.
Speaker B:Trust me.
Speaker B:I would love to do that as well.
Speaker B:But not everybody is built that way, and I'm certainly not one of them.
Speaker A:So, yeah, without judgment, I'm in my bubble.
Speaker A:So I have decided to rebuild myself this way because it'll drive you crazy out there.
Speaker A:We don't do a lot of.
Speaker A:We don't do a lot of politics talking here because of that, you know?
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:It's just this world is this world.
Speaker A:So we created a space that's Just for us.
Speaker A:For us to have fun and kind of forget about the troubles from outside.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker A:You know.
Speaker C:Since you brought it up.
Speaker C:Fuck Trump.
Speaker C:Continue.
Speaker B:Period.
Speaker B:I just needed.
Speaker B:I just needed that one time.
Speaker B:No, I'm good.
Speaker B:I'm good.
Speaker A:Just all of them.
Speaker A:All of them.
Speaker A:I'm good.
Speaker A:Thank you.
Speaker A:Ladies and gentlemen, the opinions and.
Speaker A:And values expressed is from everyone here at what Are We Even Talking About Podcast.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:Stand ten toes deep in that.
Speaker A:Ron.
Speaker D:I said what I said.
Speaker A:Now I'll ask you.
Speaker C:Christopher, thank you so much.
Speaker C:I've been waiting.
Speaker C:What do you want to know?
Speaker B:Patiently.
Speaker A:How was your week?
Speaker C:Well, to start, as you know, I'm 41, and I'm strictly for the bitches.
Speaker A:Wait, what?
Speaker C:But my week.
Speaker C:My week, it has been pretty cool, as we know.
Speaker C:I have recently started a new gig.
Speaker C:I think I was under the expectation that I was going to start getting a little bit more into the meat of things this week, and that has not been the case.
Speaker C:It has been another week of, like, training, videos and stuff, slides and busy work.
Speaker C:And I think having not taken a break in between and coming right off of the heels of working another job that was incredibly productive, I've been a little bored, and it makes the days go by slower, but it's cool.
Speaker C:Everybody keeps saying, take advantage of this piece.
Speaker C:Like, be grateful for this time that you have to experience downtime, because once it does ramp up, it's going to be a little hectic.
Speaker C:So I'm trying to be grateful and to be in flow and to be patient, but also trying not to lose my thanking mind.
Speaker C:Other than that, though, the week has been cool.
Speaker C:I think we briefly discussed it, but I don't know if I went into detail.
Speaker C:I am in the process of finding a place based on previous experience.
Speaker C:I already know what it's going to entail, so at this point, I'm just trying to find exactly where I'm gonna go, who I'm gonna give my money to, and how much money I need to give them, but other than that, it's been peachy.
Speaker C:I have not busted a nut all week, so that's been entertaining for me, um, and for others who have had to deal with my attitude.
Speaker C:How's your week been?
Speaker A:Well, first, before you wait, let me ask you two questions.
Speaker A:Can I.
Speaker A:Sure.
Speaker C:Go.
Speaker A:All right, first question.
Speaker A:Is it the kind of slides that you can fast forward through, or do you have to watch the whole slide?
Speaker C:It depends on the training.
Speaker C:Um, some of them are like LinkedIn learning, where you or even the ones within the system where it's like, in order to get credit, you must watch this video to its completion.
Speaker B:Yeah, I know.
Speaker C:So like, literally it's me with like the headphones hanging up, up on the stand with the video playing while I'm over here on my computer doing completely.
Speaker C:But yeah, and then your second.
Speaker A:Second question is, is this going to be in the place where we'll welcome.
Speaker A:Welcome her in the conversation where Beyonce is from?
Speaker C:No, actually, interestingly enough, I made the decision for myself, um, just based on what made the most sense financially for me right now to spend a little bit more time near my family.
Speaker C:So I'm gonna be here for at least another year.
Speaker C:And then eventually, if Bea calls me home, I'll head it back to Houston.
Speaker A:Oh, you did ask me how I've been.
Speaker C:I did.
Speaker A:How's your week?
Speaker A:You did.
Speaker A:And that's how I've been.
Speaker A:Late.
Speaker A:Um, we wanna apologize to you all out there.
Speaker A:I know, I know, I know you have been wanting us to come back.
Speaker A:Um, unfortun, unfortunately, last week your boy had hit some financial difficulty and I've learned very valuable lessons.
Speaker A:Shout out to Dear Libra that will be coming soon.
Speaker A:You can't lend everybody money because you need it back.
Speaker A:And yeah, on top of that, the gov.
Speaker A:We just talked about, like, we're not bringing politics into this, but when it affects your job.
Speaker A:So as a, as a teacher, as an educator who comes to these different schools with these programs, Most schools get their funding around August, September, and then they're like, they're reaching out to the people that they want to come in.
Speaker A:The nonprofits or the people who have their own organizations and who want to come in and teach the schools.
Speaker A:But the funding has been cut dramatically.
Speaker A:So a lot of the schools that I was working with no longer can support eight different programs.
Speaker A:So now they're cutting to what they feel is most efficient.
Speaker A:What's.
Speaker A:What works the best for them, what they get the most return out of.
Speaker A:And sometimes photography, theater, music, all these things get cut.
Speaker A:So it's been, it's been a little bit of trouble to shout out to.
Speaker A:Yes.
Speaker A:Because she's been trying to push this through and I enjoy working with her.
Speaker A:And I sit like this.
Speaker A:No matter what.
Speaker A:You got me and I.
Speaker A:And I got you.
Speaker A:Because I see.
Speaker A:I see some great things with what it is that you're starting to.
Speaker A:And the kind of person that I am, I always want to be somewhere from the ground up to help build it.
Speaker A:Number one, I'm an iota.
Speaker A:We build traditions.
Speaker A:We don't rest upon one Number two, I'm a Libra.
Speaker A:I love it, you know, I love being part of something that I can help create, you know?
Speaker A:And so, like, my phone was off for a week.
Speaker A:That was terrible.
Speaker A:I haven't had that happen in years.
Speaker A:Yeah, my WI fi might get turned off or whatever, but I still got 5G.
Speaker A:But, like, being outside with your.
Speaker A:Without your phone, it's just.
Speaker A:I don't want to do it.
Speaker A:It's ghetto.
Speaker A:And.
Speaker A:And not ghetto isn't.
Speaker A:You know, but it's just ghetto.
Speaker C:It's ghetto like it's cold.
Speaker C:Ghetto was understood.
Speaker A:Yeah, it's.
Speaker A:It's not for me.
Speaker A:And I.
Speaker A:It is for me in the sense of I don't want to be bothered with people, but please let me have the option, the choice to ignore.
Speaker B:I get that.
Speaker A:I'm so, like, I want to shout her out.
Speaker A:Yaz, as well.
Speaker A:Because, you know, I said this.
Speaker A:I said this over and over again to people.
Speaker A:Stop crying broke.
Speaker A:Because money's going to come.
Speaker A:It just does.
Speaker A:What you put out is what you get back.
Speaker A:And you cry broke.
Speaker A:You're always going to be broke, you know?
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:Just try.
Speaker A:Try to be a little bit better with your finances.
Speaker A:But, you know, if it wasn't for her all of a sudden hitting me up out the blue, talking about she had this opportunity she wanted me to be a part of, I would still be phoneless because apparently when I came back to the garage today, he wasn't there.
Speaker A:So I still didn't even get my pay for this week.
Speaker A:So I'm looking up.
Speaker A:Things are looking up.
Speaker A:That's all I can say right now because my phone is back on and we're back, so.
Speaker A:But we are back.
Speaker A:We're back.
Speaker A:We are back.
Speaker C:And since you said that, let's talk about we, because I just want to note that we don't apologize for shit.
Speaker C:As I told him on last week when it happened, people know that we're here.
Speaker C:They know that we're returning.
Speaker C:If we have to take a week off, that's okay.
Speaker C:Life happens.
Speaker C:People have major events in their life that take place that require them to be unavailable.
Speaker C:And sometimes you have to be willing to not only give yourself grace, but demand that other people give it to you as well.
Speaker C:So I just want to say.
Speaker C:He said that we apologize.
Speaker C:We don't.
Speaker C:Y' all knew we was coming back.
Speaker C:We appreciate y' all missing us, but we here.
Speaker A:You better dip into the October tub.
Speaker C:Cause we apologize.
Speaker A:I'm rubbing on.
Speaker A:No, we don't.
Speaker C:No, we don't.
Speaker C:Damn it.
Speaker A:Okay, okay.
Speaker A:You know, you're right.
Speaker A:You're right, you're right.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:So before we really get into the episode, I had this new idea, and I'm just thinking about something, and I want to see how this is going to work.
Speaker A:And we might.
Speaker A:I might include it in our week's suggestion, but I had.
Speaker A:You know, since it's libra season, I had a question for y'.
Speaker A:All.
Speaker A:Is there a song that you got on your mind, on your heart, that represents how you feel as your Libra?
Speaker C:Kwame, if you got it, you go first.
Speaker B:Yeah, definitely.
Speaker B:I get out by Lauryn Hill.
Speaker A:Why?
Speaker B:Because everything that she said in there just sticks like grits.
Speaker A:You know what I mean?
Speaker B:Like, oh.
Speaker A:Ladies and gentlemen.
Speaker A:Ladies and gentlemen, for those of you who are listening.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:He just pulls out the vinyl of.
Speaker A:People sleep on that album.
Speaker A:People sleep on that album.
Speaker B:On that album.
Speaker B:And that woman was the most.
Speaker B:You don't.
Speaker B:You've never seen an artist be so vulnerable and so raw and so real.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:People couldn't get that album came out.
Speaker B: They did that with Unplug in: Speaker B: Right,: Speaker B:And the things that she was saying then, like, apply so much now.
Speaker B:Like, if you just sit back.
Speaker B:I think everybody just needed to take a trip down memory lane to that album and really just sit with it and hear what she's saying.
Speaker B:It's gonna blow your mind.
Speaker D:Now I understand you just wanna use me.
Speaker D:You say love, then abuse me.
Speaker D:You never thought you'd lose me.
Speaker D:But how quickly we forget that nothing is for certain.
Speaker D:You thought I'd stay here hurting your guilt trips, just not working, Repressing me to death.
Speaker D:Cause now I'm choosing life, yo.
Speaker D:I'll take the sacrifice, yo.
Speaker D:If everything must go, then go.
Speaker D:That's how I choose to live.
Speaker A:I love that.
Speaker A:I love that song.
Speaker A:Yes.
Speaker A:What about you?
Speaker A:What about you, Christopher King?
Speaker A:King.
Speaker C:I'm so.
Speaker C:I'm so attracted to your energy right now.
Speaker C:It's beautiful.
Speaker C:I love this for you.
Speaker C:Your birthday's next week.
Speaker C:It is.
Speaker A:It is.
Speaker A:So.
Speaker C:Let me get out of my own face.
Speaker C:So for me, you know, I love to be transparent.
Speaker C:So when you asked earlier, I was working, or pretending to work, for that matter.
Speaker C:And I was trying to think of it, but everything in my mind felt so very cliche.
Speaker C:So I leaned upon my good sister the GPT of chat, and I asked, you know, based on what you know about me and based on what you know about Libras.
Speaker C:What do you feel is a song that I embody or would, you know, ultimately would capture my essence within this Libra season.
Speaker C:And the first song, it pulled up multiple options.
Speaker C:But the first song was such a wow because number one, I don't like.
Speaker C:Of all the things that I've ever discussed with ChatGPT, I've never referenced anything specifically in regard to music.
Speaker C:So for the song that it gave, number one, I know that you've never heard it.
Speaker C:Number two, when you do hear it, understand that it's gonna make you emotional.
Speaker C:So two things to prepare you for in regard to that.
Speaker C:But the song is called Godspeed by Frank Ocean.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker C:And I said, are we talking about.
Speaker A:I've never heard it or are you.
Speaker C:Talking about like chat Chat?
Speaker C:No, I said you've never heard it.
Speaker C:You have heard it?
Speaker A:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker C:For whatever reason, I feel like we talked about Frank one time and you were like you weren't really familiar with him like that.
Speaker A:I mean, no, I'm, I, I'm not, it's not that I'm not familiar.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker C:That's cute.
Speaker B:Okay.
Speaker C:But you.
Speaker C:Oh.
Speaker A:Man, this is.
Speaker A:I'mma take a second listen.
Speaker A:I'm gonna take a listen to that in specific.
Speaker A:Like, I think that people give Frank Olsen a lot for no reason, but go ahead.
Speaker B:That's a like in the background doing like runs in the back.
Speaker C:Like just spoil it.
Speaker C:But interestingly it said and this is what it gave.
Speaker C:But it was interesting because I agree so genuinely with it.
Speaker C:It says a song that captures all of those Libra aligned qualities.
Speaker C:Balance, healing, softness with strength, beauty with depth, accountability and self aware charm.
Speaker C:Is Godspeed by Frank Ocean.
Speaker C:Why does it fit me?
Speaker C:Because it's soft but powerful.
Speaker C:It's gentle in tone, carries emotional weight.
Speaker C:Just like the way that I speak about healing.
Speaker C:It's loving but boundaried.
Speaker C:It's not about begging someone to stay.
Speaker C:It's about sending them love even as they move forward.
Speaker C:That's the evolved Libra energy.
Speaker C:It's poetic, yet direct.
Speaker C:It's beautifully written, but it's not fluffy.
Speaker C:It's intentional and it's reflective and compassionate.
Speaker C:It honors growth, mine and others.
Speaker C:And when I heard it, I was like, that's literally my favorite song on the album.
Speaker C:And I've listened to that song on repeat for hours and hours and hours.
Speaker C:So I was like, Damn.
Speaker C:Like maybe ChatGPT has gained a sense of who I am a little bit deeper than I understand.
Speaker C:And this AI shit is some real to consider because like I said, I've Never talked to chatgpt about music ever.
Speaker C:And so for that to have popped up, I was like.
Speaker C:Cause I could have, like, they could have put.
Speaker C:Pulled any song from the universe.
Speaker C:It could have been some shit that I've never heard of.
Speaker C:It could have been like some old school, the Beatles or something.
Speaker C:And I'm like, frank Ocean, Godspeed.
Speaker C:That's insane.
Speaker A:That's actually.
Speaker C:So, yes, I totally resonate with all of that.
Speaker C:And so, yes, bury that.
Speaker C:Thank you, my good sis.
Speaker D:Wishing you Godspeed, glory there will be sometimes you won't move Still I'll always be there for you How I do I let go of my claim on you It's a free world you look down on where you came from sometimes.
Speaker D:But you left this place to call on.
Speaker C:Always.
Speaker A:You know, I'm mad because now I.
Speaker C:Just asked her, like, girl, like, what.
Speaker A:You got for me?
Speaker A:She.
Speaker A:She has some things, but things like there's a list, right?
Speaker A:And two of them on the list is definitely.
Speaker C:Yeah, but what was your original choice, like, prior to going to that?
Speaker C:Because I am curious about that, so.
Speaker A:Because based.
Speaker A:Especially based on.
Speaker A:For those of you who listened to the last episode, shout out to all of you who are returned, if you are a new listener.
Speaker A:Welcome, niggas.
Speaker A:Based on how I was saying about, like, when I walked into a room and I know I own the space, the song that always, like, that popped in my head is with.
Speaker A:Featuring two Libras, which is finesse, surprisingly enough.
Speaker A:Bruno Mars and Cardi B.
Speaker A:And it's.
Speaker A:There's a lyric in there that, you know, when I walk into the room, I command the attention.
Speaker A:Like, it's.
Speaker A:And it's got me dripping.
Speaker A:I've been in a good mood every single time I hear that song, and it's just like, oh, look at Cardi.
Speaker A:Yay.
Speaker C:I'm gonna tell you why social media is so funny to me.
Speaker C:Apparently one of somebody else's fans posted on.
Speaker C:I think it was Facebook, and they were like, this is when we knew she wasn't going anywhere.
Speaker C:And they posted a clip of that.
Speaker A:Song that was just like, that is terrible.
Speaker A:That is horrible.
Speaker A:And look at it.
Speaker A:Look at it.
Speaker A:Y' all did not like the song.
Speaker A:Am I the only one who liked the song?
Speaker A:Um, it wasn't bad.
Speaker C:It was just very, like, not in line with what I was enjoying at that time.
Speaker B:The video was really fun and colorful and, like, playing homage to, you know, like, the.
Speaker B:The Fly Girls and the.
Speaker C:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker C:Living Color.
Speaker B:I thought that was dope.
Speaker B:You Know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:The actual life song, it was like, you know, it was, you know, it was cute.
Speaker C:You know, it was very like bubblegum pop.
Speaker C:That's okay.
Speaker C:Your thing is your thing.
Speaker C:And that's okay, girl.
Speaker B:That's all right.
Speaker A:We don't apologize here.
Speaker A:That's.
Speaker C:Hey.
Speaker B:Okay.
Speaker A:Hey.
Speaker D:When I'm walking with you, I watch the whole room change.
Speaker D:That's what you do.
Speaker D:Shut the down on site.
Speaker D:That's right.
Speaker A:Now that you mention it.
Speaker A:And make me look deeper because here we go, digging deep again.
Speaker A:Digging in.
Speaker A:Digging, digging.
Speaker A:Me, daddy, digging.
Speaker C:Wait, what women is so much love we have when.
Speaker A:You know, there have been moments in my life where someone was digging in me and I said, daddy.
Speaker A:And I just stopped right then and there.
Speaker A:Like, whoa.
Speaker A:Let's pause for a second because it just happened and no one's even in me.
Speaker C:It's getting too good to me to.
Speaker A:Go, whoa, daddy ain't it.
Speaker A:Daddy, ain't it.
Speaker A:But these three and the one that actually I'll sick.
Speaker A:Okay, so it does know this about me because this song is on.
Speaker A:In my script is Someday We'll All Be Free.
Speaker B:Oh, D. Yeah.
Speaker A:My, my.
Speaker A:The.
Speaker A:The movie that I'm writing, that's the opening song and it's for a purpose that.
Speaker C:Is it connected to your Google?
Speaker C:Is it connected to your Google?
Speaker A:Is what connected to my Google?
Speaker C:Your chat GPT.
Speaker C:Like your login?
Speaker C:No, somewhere connected.
Speaker A:I had.
Speaker A:I had her look at my script and revise things.
Speaker C:Gotcha.
Speaker A:Okay, so that's how you know she's been saying, oh, so this is what you like, you know, which is fine.
Speaker C:Yeah.
Speaker C:India brown skin.
Speaker A:India Irene brown skin and ascension.
Speaker A:Don't ever.
Speaker A:Wanda your sensual artistic energy and appreciation for beauty.
Speaker A:Shout out to being a Libra, y'.
Speaker A:All.
Speaker A:That's just it.
Speaker A:That's just.
Speaker A:That's just who we are.
Speaker C:Maxwell.
Speaker A:Maxwell.
Speaker A:I don't know.
Speaker A:I didn't even know.
Speaker A:I didn't know I had to say it.
Speaker A:I'm sorry.
Speaker C:Well, no, I was just trying to make sure I grabbed all the references.
Speaker A:You're fine.
Speaker A:All good.
Speaker C:Do your thing.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:No, no, yeah.
Speaker A:No, for you out there, John Maxwell.
Speaker A:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker A:Maxwell.
Speaker B:Ugh.
Speaker B:That ain't nothing like some Maxwell.
Speaker A:Sorry, I just imagined him naked.
Speaker C:All right, since you mentioned that, I just want to say that I've been a hating ass bitch this week and I'm going to be upfront about it so that everybody out there is aware if you've been curious about a random stranger whose opinion means nothing.
Speaker C:I Have literally, me and my best friend had this conversation on the phone the other night.
Speaker C:Every time I've seen somebody post something, all I've said is, y' all bitches didn't give a fuck about d' Angelo yesterday.
Speaker C:Thank you, Deadass.
Speaker C:And my best friend was like, bam.
Speaker C:I wanted to say something, but I didn't want to be mean.
Speaker C:I'm so glad you said something because it's just some real shit.
Speaker C:And not for nothing, don't get me wrong, I get it.
Speaker C:He was very talented.
Speaker C:He did some very great things for art.
Speaker C:He did some very great things for the black.
Speaker C:Black music in general.
Speaker C:However, especially from this generation standpoint, if y' all niggas ain't said nothing about d' Angelo and where is he?
Speaker C:And we miss him and we need him back, and he's valuable to music.
Speaker C:I don't wanna see y' all motherfuckers posting shit about d' Angelo in that one song that y' all know or that one video that y' all know because he passed away.
Speaker C:And now it just seems significant to pay respect.
Speaker C:That was irritating for me.
Speaker C:So, yes, from a hating ass bitch.
Speaker C:There you go.
Speaker C:That's what you got from me this week.
Speaker C:Cause that was aggravating for me every time that I was on social media.
Speaker C:And of course, there are the people that I understand that that wasn't the case for, because you know, who's really in tune with what and who's not.
Speaker C:But for the average person, that was just like, oh, d', Angelo, girl, move.
Speaker A:Okay, you just missed the force body.
Speaker A:You didn't even get into his music.
Speaker A:You didn't get into the lyrics.
Speaker A:There's so many lyrics in there.
Speaker A:And it's so crazy because literally I have not bought another vinyl.
Speaker A:And that's the last one that's on here.
Speaker A:And it's been.
Speaker A:It's been collecting dust and it spins.
Speaker C:It's.
Speaker C:It flips it on its own, right?
Speaker C:No, yours, the one that you have.
Speaker A:Okay, you have to flip it because.
Speaker C:I was going to say I went looking for one.
Speaker C:And how about they have one by.
Speaker C:Is it Crossley or is it Victorola?
Speaker C:I don't know.
Speaker C:But yeah, at some point, when I'm in a position to blow some money unnecessarily, that's gonna happen.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:Cause we're Libras.
Speaker A:We care about things that are, you know, artistic beauty.
Speaker B:That's just so funny.
Speaker A:And mine.
Speaker A:And mine, stand up.
Speaker A:So that's why I asked you if.
Speaker C:It flips, because I think I saw One that, like, it'll.
Speaker A:It'll pull and poke it out.
Speaker A:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker A:No, this one is.
Speaker A:It's.
Speaker A:It's a.
Speaker A:It's oak.
Speaker A:It's made of oak, and then it just.
Speaker A:It sits it up so it plays this way.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:I love it.
Speaker A:I love it.
Speaker A:And I need to get into.
Speaker A:Back into my vinyls.
Speaker C:But unrelated, I want to know, from each of you, do you remember the first song that you ever knew by heart?
Speaker C:Like, you were a little kid, and you were singing this song word for word as a little kid.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker C:How.
Speaker A:Okay, I can't.
Speaker A:I can't go back that far.
Speaker A:What do you mean?
Speaker A:Oh, like.
Speaker C:Well, maybe if not the first one from, like, when you were three, but, like, the first one you remember that you remembered.
Speaker C:Like, what's a song from your childhood that you remember?
Speaker C:Like.
Speaker C:Oh, like, bitch.
Speaker C:When this came on, I was at the party screaming out all the words.
Speaker C:I know as the guest, it seems like.
Speaker C:No, no, no.
Speaker C:It seems like it might be inappropriate because you are being very hesitant.
Speaker C:So I really want to know.
Speaker C:Cuddle, monster, cuddle.
Speaker A:Ladies and gentlemen, I am wearing a T shirt that says Cuddle monster on it, and he's making fun of me.
Speaker A:It's okay.
Speaker C:What's the song?
Speaker A:I don't want to go first.
Speaker A:He's the guest.
Speaker C:You're right, because I was like, what's the song?
Speaker C:N. I'm sorry.
Speaker C:Go ahead, Corbett.
Speaker B:Well, it was when I was 3, and it was Escape, kick off your shoes.
Speaker A:We left my phone.
Speaker A:Get off my phone.
Speaker A:We love that.
Speaker C:No dead ass.
Speaker B:It was so, like, I was like.
Speaker B:I used to do, like, the.
Speaker B:Like, I was just obsessed.
Speaker B:The video, the movements and everything.
Speaker B:My mom used to always just tell me, like, all the stories, just like, that's.
Speaker B:You would just always keep singing that song.
Speaker B:Keep singing that.
Speaker A:Singing, singing.
Speaker B:And I was just like, yeah.
Speaker B:It was just.
Speaker B:Yeah, I loved it.
Speaker C:Similarly, I was three, but let's take it back quite a few years, and it was hold on by In Vogue.
Speaker A:Ah.
Speaker C:So, sir, what was.
Speaker C:What was your.
Speaker C:What was your.
Speaker A:Okay, so y' all went back back that far.
Speaker A:So I.
Speaker A:Let me go back further then, because I was.
Speaker A:What was your.
Speaker C:What was your first thought?
Speaker A:My first thought was TLC ain't too proud to beg.
Speaker C:I love that video.
Speaker A:Okay, but it's.
Speaker A:But that's not like.
Speaker C:Cause I would say my.
Speaker C:My second is Baby got Back by Cervix a lot.
Speaker A:Come on, now.
Speaker C:I still know that hosa by heart and probably haven't heard it in a good.
Speaker C:25 years.
Speaker A:Incorrect.
Speaker A:Well, not by heart, but I guess that's much later.
Speaker A:Yeah, it is a lot later.
Speaker A:And I can actually quote this from beginning to end in a different voice because I know it so well.
Speaker A:I used to do it for karaoke, which is salt and pepper.
Speaker A:None of your business.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:Because if I want to take a man home with me tonight, that ain't none of your business.
Speaker C:Who you think you are.
Speaker C:Put in your good to your.
Speaker A:Don't you got.
Speaker A:Don't you got nothing to do?
Speaker A:Check it, check it I can't do.
Speaker C:Nothing I can't do nothing, girl without somebody bugging.
Speaker C:I used to think that it was.
Speaker A:Me but now I see it wasn't.
Speaker A:They called me and then called me.
Speaker B:Got one.
Speaker A:The penis.
Speaker A:And everybody's got one.
Speaker A:Everybody's got one, yo.
Speaker A:She was so aggressive, yo.
Speaker A:But to.
Speaker A:Well, since we're in this frame of.
Speaker A:Oh, God.
Speaker A:Here's the thing.
Speaker A:I don't remember a lot about my childhood.
Speaker A:Childhood brings back trauma.
Speaker A:So there's a lot of.
Speaker A:There's a lot of spaces.
Speaker C:Yes.
Speaker A:My childhood, literally, I was so connected to that fucking song.
Speaker A:I hate you right now.
Speaker A:But no, for real, I was.
Speaker A:Because there'd be moments where, when my aunt was alive, I would ask her, and she would just always tell me.
Speaker A:See, you was.
Speaker A:You were such a happy baby, even.
Speaker A:You were a happy kid until.
Speaker A:And it was a popular.
Speaker A:Until, you know, until either my mother or my father picked me up or my mother or, you know, my dad picked me up, not my father, because my grandmother raised me.
Speaker A:So, like, let's.
Speaker A:I can't.
Speaker A:I can't.
Speaker A:I can't recall anything before, like, seven.
Speaker C:And that's okay.
Speaker B:It's a blur.
Speaker B:I think it gets it.
Speaker B:It can be a blur.
Speaker B:You know, I still.
Speaker B:I remember, like, things here and there.
Speaker B:Like, something will happen.
Speaker B:You know what I mean?
Speaker B:I think that that's why something will happen.
Speaker B:You're triggered, and you hear something or you see something, and it'll take you back to a time, and then you're like, oh, my gosh.
Speaker B:Wow.
Speaker A:But I just want to tell you, Kwame, that I knew you were cool when I met you.
Speaker C:You said what?
Speaker A:I knew you were cool.
Speaker A:You know?
Speaker A:And now I even know even better, because Escape was it.
Speaker A:Good answer.
Speaker A:Good fucking answer.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:I want to tell you.
Speaker B:It's funny.
Speaker B:It was that, and then it was.
Speaker B:It was the Clark sisters, because I was so, like, in church as a cat.
Speaker B:Like, I was that kid.
Speaker B:So is my living in vain was like, the next one.
Speaker B:I used to love the Clark sisters as a, like, child.
Speaker B:Like, like, screaming like, like, that was my Beyonce when I was, like, a kid.
Speaker B:Cause I spent so much time at my grandmother's house, and she used to watch the VHS gospel tapes all the time, and, like.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker C:So that made my heart a little happy.
Speaker C:I love that for you.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker C:Here's my living in my face.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:I'm sorry.
Speaker B:Period.
Speaker C:Okay.
Speaker C:Hey, so just so I can say that I'm doing my due diligence, because we will rant for another hour, and y' all be living like, what are.
Speaker A:We even talking about?
Speaker C:So, really quick, rapid fire.
Speaker C:I'm going to ask you guys 10 questions.
Speaker C:We're going in order just so we can keep everything aligned, because that's important.
Speaker C:So when you say kwame order, I'm going to.
Speaker C:I got you.
Speaker A:I'm sorry.
Speaker A:Let me let you.
Speaker C:Let me just let you.
Speaker C:I got you.
Speaker C:Yeah.
Speaker C:So we're going to go qua bay.
Speaker C:We're going to go pj and then we're going to go me.
Speaker C:And really quickly, would you prefer.
Speaker C:And this is this or that for everybody's listening that is not familiar, Would you prefer healing in silence or sharing your journey?
Speaker A:Oof.
Speaker B:Heal in silence.
Speaker A:Share my world.
Speaker A:Share my journey.
Speaker C:I could care.
Speaker C:I want to share my journey.
Speaker C:It's one of those things as to where.
Speaker C:As much as I would want to heal in silence, I also kind of want to help somebody else.
Speaker C:That's maybe healing.
Speaker C:That's a big part of my platform.
Speaker C:Self discipline or motivation?
Speaker B:Self discipline.
Speaker A:Motivation.
Speaker A:If you.
Speaker A:If you bring up more songs, I'm gonna hurt you.
Speaker C:No, but it's so funny that, like, it takes a while for us to get on the same.
Speaker C:On the same wavelength.
Speaker C:And I'm the same.
Speaker C:Motivation.
Speaker C:Like, especially right now, like, bitch, encourage me.
Speaker C:I need it.
Speaker C:And this is interesting as a choice, because for me, I definitely say both of them.
Speaker C:But therapy or journaling?
Speaker B:Therapy.
Speaker A:There's no song that I can go with Journaling Girl, is there?
Speaker A:Yeah, there's not.
Speaker C:However, journaling right now.
Speaker C:So generally speaking, I'll say my answer would normally be therapy, but as for now, it's going to be journaling just because me and my therapist have not.
Speaker A:Really been talking lately.
Speaker C:Which is more important to you, success or happiness?
Speaker B:Happiness.
Speaker B:Absolutely.
Speaker A:Happiness.
Speaker A:Happiness.
Speaker A:This dish here.
Speaker C:I want to be as great of people as the both of you are right now.
Speaker C:However, right now, I am seeking success with my everything.
Speaker C:Bitch.
Speaker C:I'll be happy when it's time to Be.
Speaker C:And I pray that I get to be successful enough to be able to enjoy the happiness once I'm there.
Speaker A:Be with the people are.
Speaker C:Oh, I feel like I'm gonna sound like such a terrible person.
Speaker C:These next couple of questions.
Speaker C:Money or freedom?
Speaker B:Freedom.
Speaker B:All day, every day.
Speaker A:Freedom.
Speaker A:Freedom.
Speaker B:I can't.
Speaker A:Help me.
Speaker A:Oh, that's not the worst.
Speaker A:Yeah, I want to kick some water around.
Speaker A:Freedom.
Speaker A:Yeah, freedom.
Speaker C:I'll buy the freedom.
Speaker C: It's money for: Speaker A:It's money for B200.
Speaker C:Alex goes crazy.
Speaker C:Wisdom or youth?
Speaker B:Wisdom.
Speaker A:It would be the young youth.
Speaker C:Yeah, I'm gonna.
Speaker C:Hold on.
Speaker C:There's an incessant tapping.
Speaker A:Wait, how.
Speaker A:Wait, how old are you again?
Speaker B:I just turned 36.
Speaker A:That's, like, almost a decade ago for me.
Speaker A:Godly Jesus.
Speaker A:It's hitting me.
Speaker A:It's hitting me hard.
Speaker A:It's hitting me hard, baby.
Speaker A:It's like, oh, someone.
Speaker C:So you said youth, pj.
Speaker A:I said youth.
Speaker C:Right now I would like to be wise.
Speaker C:I'm gonna keep it real.
Speaker C:I'm seeking wisdom Live forever simply now Lord, keep me here.
Speaker C:This is definitely 41, but keep me here.
Speaker C:But I do want to be wise.
Speaker C:Ooh, Confidence or humility?
Speaker B:Confidence.
Speaker A:You got me dripping in finesse, right?
Speaker A:The fuck.
Speaker C:I think this is the first one where not the fuck.
Speaker A:I think this is the first one.
Speaker C:This is the first one where we have all agreed, so.
Speaker C:Yes.
Speaker C:Confidence.
Speaker C:Oh, I feel like I.
Speaker A:Wait, what was the other option?
Speaker B:Humility.
Speaker C:Confidence or humility?
Speaker B:Listen, I. Yeah, humility is overrated.
Speaker A:I mean, Dear Libra is kind of.
Speaker C:Yeah.
Speaker C:So this one, I feel like I've asked something similar before, but just as a question for everybody.
Speaker C:Present.
Speaker C:Change the past or see the future.
Speaker B:See the future.
Speaker A:We are hopping in that talk.
Speaker A:That time machine in that tub.
Speaker A:We going back to the past.
Speaker A:We can change that right quick.
Speaker A:I want to see what's going on.
Speaker C:Yeah.
Speaker C:I don't want to have to deal with that anxiety.
Speaker C:Let's change the past.
Speaker A:Let's change the past.
Speaker A:Because for me, in my mind, anxiety forever, like.
Speaker C:Cause even if I see it, ain't nothing I can do about it.
Speaker C:So, like, yeah, let's keep her up there.
Speaker C:Because I want to be able to visual.
Speaker C:I want to be able to create it and to visualize it and to.
Speaker C:For it to, like, come into fruition in the way that I see it.
Speaker C:And so to get ahead and be like, uh, bitch, this ain't what I imagined.
Speaker C:We got to go back and change up things.
Speaker C:Then I'm going to be like, stuck in my head about it.
Speaker C:Let's not.
Speaker A:Ooh.
Speaker C:So this is interesting.
Speaker C:Inner peace or endless energy?
Speaker B:What was the first one?
Speaker C:Inner peace.
Speaker C:Peace within or endless energy?
Speaker B:Inner peace.
Speaker A:Okay, Call me Kung Fu Panda because I want inner peace.
Speaker C:I don't want to have to choose Polo.
Speaker A:And that's why you need inner peace, man.
Speaker B:Right?
Speaker C:No, like, because on some cool shit, like, I do want, like, endless energy.
Speaker C:That's a struggle area for me, like, to the degree I saw lately, like, I've been like, bitch, I need some vitamins, something.
Speaker C:Because, like, the idea of, like, when I was a kid, I could sleep for four hours and then wake back up and just get to going.
Speaker C:And now I'm just like, I can sleep for eight and wake up in the morning and feel exhausted and be exhausted throughout the day.
Speaker C:And it just.
Speaker C:It kind of feels like an endless cycle of me never getting enough rest and never having enough energy.
Speaker C:So I definitely want inner peace.
Speaker C:If, like, that's the.
Speaker C:Hold on, let me, Let me, Let me balance it.
Speaker A:Because remember, you're talking to the universe now.
Speaker C:Pressure.
Speaker C:The pressure.
Speaker C:Run me that piece.
Speaker C:We'll get energy later on.
Speaker C:I'll see a doctor, we'll figure it out.
Speaker A:Buy a vitamin.
Speaker C:And this one is so interestingly worded, but I'm still gonna ask it, and this is the last question.
Speaker C:Being remembered.
Speaker C:I just don't understand how the two correlate.
Speaker C:And that's okay.
Speaker C:Being remembered or living in the moment?
Speaker B:I'm gonna, ah.
Speaker B:I'm gonna say live in the moment.
Speaker B:I literally just changed that.
Speaker B:I'm gonna say live in a moment.
Speaker C:Yeah.
Speaker A:Welcome back, Bea.
Speaker A:Because I wanna leave my footprints on the sands of time.
Speaker A:Listen.
Speaker A:And here I can see how they correlate.
Speaker A:I wanna be remembered.
Speaker A:Because if you're remembered, you are always lived in moments, even in the future when you're no longer here.
Speaker A:I thought that.
Speaker B:I think that everyone at some point is gonna be forgotten anyways.
Speaker B:So that's why I said I'd rather just live in the moment.
Speaker A:I don't believe that.
Speaker A:I refuse to believe that.
Speaker A:Not everyone.
Speaker A:I would like to be forgotten.
Speaker A:I mean, if people keep telling.
Speaker A:Because if that's the case, we forgot about Cleopatra.
Speaker B:But then there's the possibility that they don't or that just time just goes on and then you just get.
Speaker B:There's so many people who are forgotten right now that we don't know and who have contributed so much.
Speaker B:We don't talk about them.
Speaker B:No one knows about them anymore.
Speaker B:Time is just gone.
Speaker B:You Know it's gonna happen.
Speaker C:That's the reality I want for myself personally.
Speaker C:And this is just being real only because.
Speaker C:And this is strictly based on who I am.
Speaker C:It has nothing to do with anything else.
Speaker C:But I want to live in the moment because beyond my time here, bitch, whether you remember me or not, it's not gonna matter to me because I'm not trying to worry about what you doing.
Speaker C:So I would be on the other side trying to reflect on some completely different, broader shit.
Speaker C:So I want to live now and enjoy now and have the.
Speaker C:Create all the experiences that I can have now and allow people to enjoy the experience of me now.
Speaker C:Because once I'm gone, eventually, bitch, you gonna be gone too.
Speaker C:So all you can do is remember me until you die.
Speaker C:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker C:Like, and I say that from the space of.
Speaker C:I say that from the space of, like, me not doing anything as of now.
Speaker C:And that's not to say that I don't ever be that way, but not doing anything as monumental or historic that would put me in the position, like, to be somebody of note to remember as I'm now just living my life and enjoying my life and creating the life that I want to have for myself and kind of like being satisfied in that and not caring how it affects other people.
Speaker C:I want to.
Speaker C:I want to live in the moment.
Speaker A:So I want to add this.
Speaker A:Since I'm the eyeball out.
Speaker C:Add it, Bish.
Speaker C:One plus one is two.
Speaker C:The fuck.
Speaker A:The fuck what we're doing now, we will always be remembered.
Speaker A:We are here in the digital space, which will live as long as electricity lives.
Speaker A:Ok, but no, like, I. I firmly believe in living in the moment.
Speaker A:Like, I think that anxiety holds us too much.
Speaker A:Like, holds too much power over us to, like, really what we should be doing, what we.
Speaker A:What we could be doing or what's next, or, you know, you accomplished this.
Speaker A:And I talked to Blair about this a lot.
Speaker A:You know, she's always.
Speaker A:As soon as she gets something, she's like, all right, great.
Speaker A:What's next?
Speaker A:Like, enjoy what's going on now.
Speaker A:Like, savor it, taste it.
Speaker C:It sound like my mama, you know?
Speaker A:However, I do know, and especially maybe, you know, my perspective does change from, you know, day to day, you know, Libra.
Speaker A:But working in the funeral industry has broadened my horizons a little bit in reference to, like, when people pass on what you remember, how you.
Speaker A:How you keep that person's name alive, whether or not it's going to happen decades, a hundred years from now.
Speaker A:Shit, none of us are going to be here.
Speaker A:But I would love to make know that when I'm no longer here, even though I'm dead, you know, burnt away to a powdery crisp, because that's the way I would prefer it.
Speaker A:Okay, Pika.
Speaker B:I choose you.
Speaker A:I. I would love to make sure that I know that I was remembered in a way now.
Speaker A:If these bitches don't remember me and they remember me in a different light, then I can't control that.
Speaker A:But I keep hope alive.
Speaker A:Keep PJ alive in your hearts, ladies and gentlemen.
Speaker B:The idea of.
Speaker B:That's what I said.
Speaker B:I changed it.
Speaker B:And when you asked the question, I was gonna go with that.
Speaker B:Cause that's what I always kind of.
Speaker B:I think I've always wanted that feeling.
Speaker B:I wanted people to remember how I made them feel, you know?
Speaker B:But then life has taught me and is teaching me as I completely.
Speaker B:As I continue to, I guess just become more aware to what the fuck is going on and how this all is happening works.
Speaker C:I'm sorry.
Speaker A:It is playing in my ear.
Speaker A:I'm listening to you, but it is literally.
Speaker A:You are giving me something to feel.
Speaker A:That's all I can hear.
Speaker A:Cause you said it.
Speaker A:You said it.
Speaker C:You say that I'm too young.
Speaker A:That's one of the songs.
Speaker A:When I was young and I was way too young.
Speaker B:Like, that was a good song.
Speaker A:Child, this boy is gay this child is.
Speaker A:This child is gay.
Speaker B:Did you know Aretha wrote that?
Speaker A:Yes.
Speaker A:You know, because it was her original song.
Speaker B:Yes, but I saw it from Sparkle.
Speaker B:The original Sparkle.
Speaker A:Now finish what you were saying.
Speaker A:I'm so sorry.
Speaker A:My.
Speaker A:My ADHD jumped and you.
Speaker B:You done pulled me in both of.
Speaker C:My asses at the same time.
Speaker C:Cause I saw him over there, he was like.
Speaker A:And it just kept going.
Speaker A:But you forgot.
Speaker B:No, I was saying that.
Speaker B:What were you even talking about, changed?
Speaker B:Because as I just.
Speaker B:I'm paying more attention to just everything.
Speaker B:Even what you said, like, about d' Angelo and like, oh, all these other people and just like the celebrities, stuff like that, or not even celebrities, you know, people.
Speaker B:You know, that you just see every day.
Speaker B:People I see on Facebook, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:People are popping up and they're popping out, you know, And I just don't.
Speaker B:I just know that eventually someone.
Speaker B:You know, people.
Speaker B:You know, someone.
Speaker B:I'm gonna not be remembered at some point.
Speaker B:At some point, you know, maybe that'll be 50 years after.
Speaker B:A hundred years after.
Speaker B:I don't know.
Speaker B:But I do know that at some point, as more people continuously like, trickle into this, you know, floating in the space.
Speaker B:I'm not gonna be coming back.
Speaker C:He coming back.
Speaker B:He was supposed to be a b.
Speaker C:He coming back.
Speaker B:He was supposed to come back two weeks ago.
Speaker A:The only rapture I know was Anita.
Speaker C:But.
Speaker A:Listen, it's gonna be over in 20.
Speaker A:20, 39 anyway, so, like, it's okay.
Speaker B:That is such an odd number.
Speaker A:Stay tuned.
Speaker C:Now that we've done that.
Speaker C:Pj, give me what you got for a pork chop.
Speaker A:Oh, for a pork chop, I'm about to give you a heavy, meaty pork chop.
Speaker A:Like, I'm gonna lay this slab of meat on this table and say, do you want it?
Speaker B:I don't eat pork.
Speaker C:I can go for some meat.
Speaker A:Oh, vegan.
Speaker C:Vegan sliders.
Speaker A:The way that.
Speaker A:That was so beautiful.
Speaker A:Ladies and gentlemen, could you imagine a room full of Libras?
Speaker A:Like, I swear to God, it would be out of control.
Speaker A:So speaking of the room of full Libras, since last week, I've really been doing some heavy thinking, and I want to continue this segment entitled Dear Libra.
Speaker A:All right, so, hello, New York.
Speaker A:Could you hear me?
Speaker C:It's been a long time.
Speaker A:It's been a long time.
Speaker A:Yeah, it's been a while.
Speaker A:New York's been quiet.
Speaker A:Dear Libra feelings are great indicators, but horrible leaders.
Speaker A:It ain't about how you feel, boo.
Speaker A:It's about what it is.
Speaker A:Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker A:We're just gonna.
Speaker A:I'm gonna spit them out because, you know, we've been here for almost an hour, ladies and gentlemen, and if you.
Speaker C:Wanted to trigger me, you didn't have to go that deep.
Speaker A:We.
Speaker C:We could have kept it surface level.
Speaker B:It's like that kind of jacked me up real quick.
Speaker C:Damn.
Speaker A:You ready?
Speaker C:Keep it coming.
Speaker A:Here's the thing, Libras.
Speaker A:I love us.
Speaker A:We are Libras.
Speaker A:But here's the big thing, Libras.
Speaker A:Dear Libra, cut your shit.
Speaker A:Stop telling stories.
Speaker A:To make it out to be where you're not the villain.
Speaker A:Ladies and gentlemen, sometimes we are the villain.
Speaker A:It's okay to be the villain.
Speaker A:It's okay to be the bad guy.
Speaker A:Be the bad guy, okay?
Speaker A:Because you're not always the victim.
Speaker C:All right, I'll take it.
Speaker B:I don't want to take it, but I guess I'm taking it.
Speaker A:That's what he said.
Speaker C:That sounds a little predatory.
Speaker A:That's not what he said.
Speaker A:You're on it.
Speaker A:You're on it.
Speaker C:I'll take it.
Speaker C:I don't want to take it, but I'll take it.
Speaker C:It's like that's what he said.
Speaker A:Moving on.
Speaker A:Dear Libra, stop letting people use and abuse you.
Speaker A:Oh, oh, no, really.
Speaker A:Stop letting people use and abuse you.
Speaker A:Stop letting people take your niceness for granted.
Speaker A:Okay?
Speaker C:Kill them with pettiness.
Speaker A:Fuck kindness.
Speaker A:Kill him with pettiness.
Speaker B:Kill him with a cutoff.
Speaker A:In the pettiest way.
Speaker A:You know, typically.
Speaker A:Make it.
Speaker A:Make an announcement at church.
Speaker B:Well, I love a production.
Speaker A:Dear Libra, no one likes a martyr.
Speaker A:No one.
Speaker A:Okay?
Speaker A:So you don't have to do anything for everyone or anyone, because if it's not going to get done by them and they need it, it's going to get done.
Speaker A:You don't have to be the one to lay yourself on the line for other people.
Speaker A:Stop worry about yourself.
Speaker C:Let's talk about that privately, offline.
Speaker C:We'll dig deeper into that.
Speaker A:Continue.
Speaker A:Mm.
Speaker A:Dear Libra, be what you say you want.
Speaker A:Listen.
Speaker A:Be what you say you want, how you want somebody else to be, and you can't even be it for yourself.
Speaker A:Okay, now these are.
Speaker A:I know that these are a little bit deeper and a little bit harder, but these are some of the harsh truths that we need to tell ourselves.
Speaker A:And also, dear Libra, tough love isn't love.
Speaker A:Okay?
Speaker B:Yeah, it's not.
Speaker B:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker C:Sometimes you got to take it hard and deep.
Speaker A:Understand this.
Speaker A:Tough love isn't love.
Speaker A:It's control.
Speaker A:Agree, Disagree.
Speaker A:Hey, I'm just saying what my dear Libras are.
Speaker A:Okay?
Speaker A:And final.
Speaker A:And listen, this is the one that I've had to learn the hardest.
Speaker A:Everything doesn't need to be said.
Speaker A:Libra.
Speaker A:Everything doesn't need to be said outside, out loud.
Speaker A:Silence is wisdom.
Speaker A:Sometimes your mouth will get you in trouble and then get you right back out of trouble.
Speaker A:But if you hadn't said it in the first place, you wouldn't be there.
Speaker A:So silence is wisdom.
Speaker A:Just don't say nothing at all.
Speaker A:Just say okay.
Speaker C:Just give it.
Speaker B:Pick your battles, I guess.
Speaker A:Also, dear Libra, if you are trying to tell someone something and they're not ready to hear it.
Speaker A:Okay?
Speaker A:Is it okay?
Speaker A:Answer.
Speaker A:You don't have to keep trying to battle your fight.
Speaker A:Try to win your argument.
Speaker C:I'm gonna grow into that.
Speaker C:I'm gonna grow into the same thing.
Speaker C:I'm gonna go into that because how else are they gonna know?
Speaker A:They'll.
Speaker A:They'll find out on their own.
Speaker C:Because.
Speaker B:Okay, what if I'm supposed to be the.
Speaker B:I'm being called to be that one?
Speaker A:Well, then you need to answer the phone when someone's calling you.
Speaker A:Okay?
Speaker A:I'm Not.
Speaker A:I'm not the phone company.
Speaker A:All right, Dear Libra.
Speaker A:All right, y' all need we listen.
Speaker A:There are.
Speaker A:There are.
Speaker A:People use us and abuse us.
Speaker A:Everybody wants that.
Speaker A:Everybody wants to have a Libra friend, but nobody wants to be a friend to a Libra.
Speaker A:And ladies and gentlemen, that was dear Libra.
Speaker B:Oh, I need that last one on a T shirt asap.
Speaker C:And with that, I'm going to Kwame.
Speaker C:What are we even talking about?
Speaker C:W A W E T A dot podcast or wawida dot podcast.
Speaker A:Sounds so weird just hearing it like that, right?
Speaker A:It's a. I want you to know that, number one, this is episode 18, and it's like handing over a baby.
Speaker A:Like our baby.
Speaker A:So, like, handle her with care.
Speaker B:I'll try.
Speaker A:I'll try.
Speaker A:My girl, Juita.
Speaker B:Let's talk about.
Speaker B:How do you see your Libra characteristics evolving as you face new challenges in life?
Speaker A:As the guest, I would implore you to answer first.
Speaker B:Well, I mean, I notice a lot of things.
Speaker B:Like, let's say one of the, like one of the Libra characteristics with.
Speaker B:Well, is overthinking.
Speaker B:Does everybody.
Speaker B:Is.
Speaker B:Are we all overthinkers here?
Speaker C:No, I subscribe.
Speaker A:You no longer subscribe.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:Because.
Speaker C:Well, no, no, I don't subscribe because.
Speaker C:And this is my thing, and I've had the conversation with my therapist.
Speaker C:I don't know where that concept comes from because for me, in my mind, I look at it from the place of who's the determining who's.
Speaker C:Who's the regulation of thought.
Speaker C:Who says it's too much or too little or that in this moment it's over or under.
Speaker C:I just think of it all as we're just thinking.
Speaker C:You're flowing.
Speaker A:Think about a little bit more.
Speaker A:Yeah, right.
Speaker C:So I don't.
Speaker B:But that's safe to say that that is a Libra trait, though, whether or not you're work.
Speaker B:You know, whether it's something that you're don't want it to be or you don't want to, you know, you don't want to have that.
Speaker C:Define it as you mean it.
Speaker B:Huh?
Speaker C:Define it as you mean it.
Speaker C:Like, how do you.
Speaker C:When you say overthinking.
Speaker C:When I say overthinking, I mean this.
Speaker B:So I mean, I would say, like, there's a decision that being.
Speaker B:I guess that can also fall into indecision.
Speaker B:Low key, too.
Speaker A:I have my answer.
Speaker B:I think, like, pondering, like, over something.
Speaker B:Like, I guess it could be something small, it could be something big.
Speaker B:And like, instead of.
Speaker B:Instead of actually maybe making the decision or making a choice, you continuously keep going over the pros, the cons.
Speaker B:Should I?
Speaker B:But what happens if that you're really a Libra.
Speaker B:Huh?
Speaker B:You get what I'm saying?
Speaker B:Like, that's.
Speaker B:You're digging into the library so it morphs into, like, the indecision.
Speaker A:I see what you're saying.
Speaker C:Okay.
Speaker B:You get what I'm saying?
Speaker A:Overthinking seems to add to the indecision part.
Speaker A:So it's hard for you to make a choice because you're just constantly thinking, yes or no.
Speaker A:Yes or no?
Speaker A:Because I understand.
Speaker A:Actually, I see where you're coming from.
Speaker B:Instead of saying, this is what I want.
Speaker B:That's what is gonna happen, or, this is the issue, and this is how I'm gonna solve it, and that's it.
Speaker C:Period.
Speaker B:That doesn't always seem to happen most, like, with what if.
Speaker A:What if.
Speaker B:What if?
Speaker A:I'm sorry, Aaliyah.
Speaker B:That's how I defined it.
Speaker C:I just got read.
Speaker C:You can go ahead.
Speaker A:Ooh.
Speaker A:So my answer.
Speaker C:We're not there yet.
Speaker C:He did not answer.
Speaker A:He did.
Speaker C:You said, as a guest, you wanted him to go first.
Speaker C:And all he said, all he did was ask the question, do we all agree that overthinking is a quality of Libras?
Speaker A:So, yeah.
Speaker C:He's still answering.
Speaker C:Hold your horses.
Speaker B:Wow.
Speaker C:Hold horses.
Speaker A:Stop with the music.
Speaker A:Go ahead.
Speaker B:I see it.
Speaker B:At least for me.
Speaker B:I don't want to, like, say it as in, like, getting worse or bad.
Speaker B:I don't look at it as a bad or a good, like, thing.
Speaker B:I just know that it's before.
Speaker B:I think I was fighting a lot of Libra qualities that I've had all of my life and couldn't process it and didn't know what I was doing.
Speaker B:I'm thinking, like, something's wrong.
Speaker B:Even with the indecision or the overthinking or the, you know.
Speaker C:Love.
Speaker B:You know, like, oh, I gotta have love.
Speaker B:Gotta, you know, all of those things.
Speaker B:And trying to, like, not be those things, because everyone says that all of those things are bad, right?
Speaker B:So it's just like, well, how the fuck do I change that if that's just inside of me?
Speaker B:And now, as I'm growing up, how those characters, you know, everything is, like, obviously evolving.
Speaker B:Those things aren't.
Speaker B:I haven't changed any of those things.
Speaker B:I've actually stepped more into them, like, fully.
Speaker B:And, like, as I approach things, I need that time to overthink.
Speaker B:I need that time to be indecisive.
Speaker B:I need to know what the fuck I'M about like the choice that I make.
Speaker B:My choices are very important to me.
Speaker B:I'm not an impulsive motherfucker.
Speaker B:If I am impulsive, that means that I completely.
Speaker B:I don't give a fuck.
Speaker B:And once I reach that point, that's all bets are off.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:I know that about me.
Speaker B:So I'm gonna need that time to overthink.
Speaker B:If it take a month, if it take a year.
Speaker B:Oh, you're supposed to move.
Speaker B:Oh, I wanna move.
Speaker B:Oh.
Speaker B:But I need to think about.
Speaker B:I can't just move, right.
Speaker B:I gotta.
Speaker B:There's things that have to.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:I have to do all of that.
Speaker B:If I could say fuck it and just jump in my car.
Speaker B:If I've gotten to that point, fuck it.
Speaker B:I've already burned down this shit and now I'm running away.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker C:Somebody was knocking on my door when he asked, how old did we say you are?
Speaker A:I can't stand you.
Speaker A:I can't stand you for the life.
Speaker A:No.
Speaker A:What do you mean?
Speaker C:I'm asking from a serious place.
Speaker B:I just turned 36.
Speaker A:And my was I. Mm.
Speaker A:I implore you to wait for the joy that is happening when you get to your 40s.
Speaker A:Yay.
Speaker C:Because.
Speaker A:And I remember all of this, yay.
Speaker C:Though, because I was just like, no.
Speaker C:And I wasn't asking to be insulting.
Speaker C:I'm asking from a place of.
Speaker C:And it's not as understanding because I think we've all had to kind of cycle through and.
Speaker C:And it's going to be that.
Speaker C:It's going to be a cycle through.
Speaker C:Cycle through, learning to understand yourself better, learning to, like you said, you're starting to lean into certain qualities and in certain.
Speaker C:To certain traits more.
Speaker C:But I think what's gonna happen is you.
Speaker A:We.
Speaker C:And this is what.
Speaker C:As far as the whole Libra thing, we hear so prominently the scales.
Speaker C:I think the scales are gonna tip and you're gonna start to feel things be a little bit more balanced and certain things that maybe seem so universally important to you right now, once you get to a certain point, you're gonna look around and you're gonna be like, that shit don't even matter anymore.
Speaker C:Like, at this point, it is what it is.
Speaker C:Cause yeah, I'm hearing the things that you're saying and this is the only reason that I'm saying that.
Speaker C:Like, I'm hearing the things that you're saying and I'm remembering that, but I'm also aware that it's Been a while since I felt that way.
Speaker C:And that as of right now, those things don't occur to me.
Speaker C:Just from the space.
Speaker C:And I want you to go further because I feel like you had more to say.
Speaker C:But just from the space of, like.
Speaker C:So, I don't know, like, it's almost like what you said.
Speaker C:It's almost like what you said in answering your question about, like, wanting to live in the moment instead of being remembered.
Speaker C:Because eventually I'm not gonna be remembered in a lot of ways.
Speaker C:I think I've gotten to that point as to where it's like, one day all this shit gonna be over with.
Speaker C:And who knows, that could be in 10, 20 years, 10 years, 10 months, 10 weeks, 10 days.
Speaker C:And right now, based on where I am right now in my life, it's kind of like, okay, I wanna move.
Speaker C:What do I gotta do to make it happen?
Speaker C:And I get it from that space of like, wanting to make sure that you're making the right choice and that you're not just being aimless and that you're doing things that are gonna be aligned with what it is that you're trying to achieve and accomplish.
Speaker C:But I think.
Speaker C:And even in that, like, I don't think that the opposite of that is necessarily impulsivity.
Speaker C:Cause like, in a lot of ways it could be like, oh, okay, well, I'm taking a lot of time versus I'm not taking enough time.
Speaker C:But I think in a lot of ways what it's gonna come down to is that eventually you'll get to that point as to where you see it and you recognize it differently.
Speaker C:And it's like, okay, you know what?
Speaker C:I don't really have to think about this as much.
Speaker C:I know exactly what it is that I want.
Speaker C:If I don't know exactly what it takes to get it right now, I'm gonna do the necessary research to get to those steps and then I'm just gonna start moving in that direction.
Speaker C:And I'm not even saying, like, it's not even necessarily.
Speaker C:And when I say the cycle, I'm not even talking about the age of it all.
Speaker C:I just think as you continue to transition through your lifetime, like, it just shifts.
Speaker C:At some point.
Speaker A:I. I do want you to continue.
Speaker A:Guys, I want to say this before I forget it.
Speaker A:I kind of wrote it down, but.
Speaker A:Dear Libra, okay, there is no right choice.
Speaker A:There's just a choice now.
Speaker A:We become so indecisive when it.
Speaker A:But all you have to do is just make a decision.
Speaker A:And then whatever happens from then on out is the consequences of those decisions.
Speaker A:Now, what you.
Speaker A:What is indecisive about most Libras is the consequences that come after.
Speaker A:Because we think about what will and what can.
Speaker C:You never know until you do it.
Speaker C:And, like, I always think about.
Speaker C:Mr. What's the little Chinese man in a.
Speaker C:He might not be Chinese.
Speaker C:Jesus.
Speaker C:What's the Asian man in hangover where he's like, but did you die?
Speaker B:Did you die very.
Speaker A:That.
Speaker A:Very.
Speaker C:That like.
Speaker C:Bitch, whatever happened, it happened.
Speaker B:But did you die, like.
Speaker A:And so I want you to also.
Speaker A:But I want you to understand, even though, like, I was like, you know, I hate you for that.
Speaker A:Because I was literally listening to you, and I was just like, this is 34, 35, 36.
Speaker A:This makes sense.
Speaker A:You're on track.
Speaker A:I'll say that.
Speaker A:In my opinion.
Speaker A:Now, we're not sitting here.
Speaker A:I don't want you to feel like these old bitches, you know, they want to sit here and tell me who I am.
Speaker B:I want y' all to answer the question too, though, but leave me alone.
Speaker B:Y' all have arrived to the other side.
Speaker A:It is wonderful here on the fourth floor of life.
Speaker B:You know, how has those, you know, your libra characteristics, you know, how have they evolved as you face new challenges?
Speaker A:I love the fact that you restated the question.
Speaker A:High five.
Speaker C:And I will also say that you.
Speaker C:The way that you just worded it helped me answer it.
Speaker B:I know.
Speaker B:I got you, boo.
Speaker A:So how in the present day, I forgot who said this.
Speaker A:Actually, I don't forget someone I follow on social media.
Speaker A:It's been said.
Speaker C:Yeah, definitely.
Speaker C:I know his name, right?
Speaker A:Well, you know, it's dead.
Speaker A:Come on, Brandon.
Speaker A:No, it's been said on social media.
Speaker A:It's been said.
Speaker A:Well, I heard someone say.
Speaker A:I'm trying to figure out how I'm going to say this, but here's the thing.
Speaker A:When you.
Speaker A:My libra energy, if I've cultivated this level of inner peace that I have, it takes this for me to say, I don't need it.
Speaker A:Don't need it.
Speaker A:If I'm.
Speaker A:I'm not going to push myself to be a part of something.
Speaker C:Yeah.
Speaker A:Because I want to feel.
Speaker A:I want to be fit.
Speaker A:I want to fit in.
Speaker A:I want to be accepted.
Speaker A:I want to be like.
Speaker A:Like me for.
Speaker A:Take.
Speaker A:Just take me for who I am not.
Speaker B:I do.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker A:I'm bringing red here.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:Come on.
Speaker B:Like it.
Speaker B:I.
Speaker A:And I'm.
Speaker A:I'm not freezing, y'.
Speaker A:All.
Speaker A:I'm just, like, buffering.
Speaker A:I will admit that when being like this invites A level of detachment and loneliness to it.
Speaker A:Because if you disconnect yourself from everything and everybody, you're just left with yourself and that's it.
Speaker A:And you don't really resolve like there.
Speaker A:There's still some things that I'm still learning.
Speaker A:We don't know it all.
Speaker A:I. I can't wait till I turn 50, but I know now it doesn't take much for me to say, you know what?
Speaker A:I'm good.
Speaker A:I'm just going to.
Speaker A:I'm just going to walk away from you guys mid conversation because this ain't.
Speaker A:This ain't it for me, with no questions asked.
Speaker A:Like, I don't need to explain myself any further unless you actually ask me and then you are ready for the actual answer.
Speaker C:Right?
Speaker A:And that's the biggest part of my Libra trait that, like, listen, don't ask me a question if you don't want to really know the honest answer.
Speaker B:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker A:So I.
Speaker A:But I have learned how to be nicer with my answer, with a little bit more tact, because I care about not your feelings, but I care about if you understand and receive what I have to say.
Speaker A:Because if I say it in the way that I think it, you're not going to receive it in the way that's going to be efficient for you.
Speaker A:You're going to receive it in the way of this bitch.
Speaker B:Call me defensive.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:And you may very well be stupid.
Speaker A:You know, like when you, like when you're like, listening to someone tell you, like, they're like, their choice that they made or this decision, you're like, okay.
Speaker B:Well, that's a choice, all right.
Speaker A:But it's your lived experience.
Speaker A:I can't tell anybody else how to live their life.
Speaker A:But for me, this piece means everything.
Speaker A:As quiet as it right here.
Speaker A:What about you, Christopher?
Speaker C:I relate to that so extremely.
Speaker C:I will say, for me, when I was younger, a lot of everything for me was chaos, but it was chaos.
Speaker C:And not necessarily, like, me living in this space of like, oh, I don't care, and I'm thriving here and chaos is perfectly fine.
Speaker C:Like, it felt like the world was on fire.
Speaker C:But I think it was also me trying to learn how to step into all of the ways that I'm supposed to show up positively in this space.
Speaker C:Like that indecision that we talked about a lot of times, how we always hear about Libras being so indecisive and so imbalanced in their search for justice, in their search for purity, in their search for, like, leveling everything out.
Speaker C:I think When I was younger, everything was so all over the place and I was so lost.
Speaker C:And similar to what you mentioned as far as that space of like, okay, it might take me a couple of months, it might take me a couple of years, but I just wanna make sure that I'm doing everything right.
Speaker C:I wanna make sure that everything's perfect.
Speaker C:I wanna make sure that I don't misstep.
Speaker C:I wanna make sure that I don't find myself in the position of like, well, if this all, you know, if this all goes wrong, then what am I gonna fall back on?
Speaker C:And like all of those different things that you create within your mind.
Speaker C:And I think as I've gotten older and I, and I, and I don't even know and so we're not even talking about age and I want to remove that from the conversation, but more so aligned with what you asked as far as just becoming more evolved as a human, as an adult, as a Libra.
Speaker C:I think that for me, a lot of what I'm starting to do for myself is like keep me here and leave everything else out there and allow myself to be in the center of it.
Speaker C:And that's how I create balance.
Speaker C:That's how everything else is.
Speaker C:Everything else is out here, floating around and I'm in here.
Speaker C:And so actively in the moment, what I'm able to do for myself is I'm able to pick and choose how I navigate it.
Speaker C:I'm able to pick and choose in a moment what's most important to me.
Speaker C:I get to pick and choose exactly what I'm going to focus on.
Speaker C:And I think for me that has helped me in many, many ways, kind of create this sense of peace, create this sense of balance.
Speaker C:Help me as far as my day to day decision making because I'm not so active, like everything's not floating around and I'm not like trying to grab a hold of something and figure out and do all the things.
Speaker C:I'm actively right here and I understand all of that's out there and this is what's most important.
Speaker C:And so right now, actively, what I'm choosing to do is I'm choosing to work on this.
Speaker C:This is important, making sure that.
Speaker C:This is important, making sure that I'm getting proper rest, making sure that I'm taking care of myself.
Speaker C:Everything else outside of this, honestly at the end of the day, and it doesn't matter what, to the degree of the, to the extent of what it is, no matter how severe the consequences, nothing, nothing outside of this matters more than this.
Speaker C:So Me making sure that I'm coming first.
Speaker C:Me making sure that I'm doing everything in my power to take care of myself.
Speaker C:Me making sure that I'm making.
Speaker C:I'm double making sure.
Speaker C:Me making sure that I'm giving myself grace in moments where I need it.
Speaker C:If I am making poor choices, if I am maybe stumbling, if I am putting myself in the position to not necessarily do the thing that it was that I told myself that I wanted to do right now, because I've been.
Speaker C:Even this week, there are certain commitments that I made that once I got to the day, it was like, you know what?
Speaker C:I'm tired.
Speaker C:And instead of beating myself up about it and being disappointed in myself or instead of pushing myself to do it anyway, you know what?
Speaker C:I'm just gonna get some rest.
Speaker C:And that's okay.
Speaker C:Because nothing in the universe fell apart because I didn't do what I said I wanted to do in that moment.
Speaker A:I wanted to pick out something that you just said, right?
Speaker A:And I wanted to, like, expound on it.
Speaker A:But I went to, like.
Speaker A:I think people got this idea incorrect because there's a difference.
Speaker A:Because when I originally heard you, I was like, oh, okay, so you're going to pick and choose what it is that you want to be a part of.
Speaker A:And this now, whatever.
Speaker A:Which translates to, oh, you have selective hearing.
Speaker A:You only hear the good things.
Speaker A:You only hear what you want to hear.
Speaker A:But it's very different when you're actively listening.
Speaker A:That's like something I teach students.
Speaker A:Like, you have to actively listen when you're.
Speaker A:Especially when you're interviewing someone or talking to someone and you're having a dialogue.
Speaker A:You have to be present at every moment.
Speaker A:And I have noticed also presently I've noticed that the.
Speaker A:My presence in being present bothers some people.
Speaker A:And, like, because they aren't.
Speaker A:Because it's something that they lack.
Speaker A:I've noticed, and this is just from my experience, I'm just speaking on behalf of PJ, y'.
Speaker C:All.
Speaker A:So this isn't qualified for all Libras.
Speaker A:If you're like this, shout out.
Speaker A:But I've noticed that because I am super duper hyper aware, which is also still rooted in trauma.
Speaker A:Because you fight or flight, you always have to be super vigilant.
Speaker A:But now in a more positive way.
Speaker A:I'm not always seeking the bad, thinking the bad, worrying about the bad.
Speaker A:I'm just paying attention to what you're saying, what your body language is doing, what this and that, whatever.
Speaker A:And do I want to actively be here?
Speaker A:No, I don't I don't want to do.
Speaker A:I don't want to play this double Dutch game with you, you know, But I am still presently here until I'm presently gone.
Speaker A:So I just want.
Speaker A:That's what I wanted to expound on.
Speaker A:I'm so sorry.
Speaker C:No, no, you're from.
Speaker C:And I get that.
Speaker B:That's.
Speaker B:That's definitely something that I've.
Speaker B:I've definitely.
Speaker B:I think within the last few years that I'm.
Speaker B:That I'm learning how to, like, do is to, you know, learning, like, when to listen to myself, you know, and not have to feel like I have to force myself to be friends with somebody or force myself to be in this space because, you know, I decided to come to this space or whatever like that.
Speaker B:Like, if I don't want to do whatever it is, like, I don't have to fucking do it.
Speaker C:Brought to you by Pad.
Speaker B:It could be judgment that comes with that.
Speaker B:Perfect example.
Speaker B:I was hanging out the other night with a friend, and we was having a great night, you know, it was a great night.
Speaker B:It was just a great time.
Speaker B:And he wanted to continue and go to another place.
Speaker B:Now, I had had, you know, a drink.
Speaker B:I'm a lightweight.
Speaker B:So it don't take much for me to kind of be like, if I'm good, I'm good.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:And, you know, I had a little, you know, pressure a little bit, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:Hit the blunt a little bit.
Speaker B:So I was just like, okay, I'm real good, you know.
Speaker B:Cause I don't smoke like that.
Speaker A:You were in the garden.
Speaker A:Okay, in the Garden.
Speaker B:So I was feeling nice, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:I was feeling really nice.
Speaker B:He was feeling good, and he was like, oh, let's go to the next.
Speaker B:Another place now.
Speaker B:The next place.
Speaker B:Another place.
Speaker B:We're gonna have to drive there, right?
Speaker B:And it's already late at night.
Speaker B:And so at first I was just like, okay.
Speaker B:Sounded like a great idea.
Speaker B:He was like, oh, I really wanna show you this place.
Speaker B:And I'm like, okay, sounds good.
Speaker B:It's cool.
Speaker B:And so I then get in my car, and then I start to drive.
Speaker B:And then I realized the lights are just.
Speaker B:Are really light, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker A:Like, beaming.
Speaker A:This ain't Was at that moment he knew he fucked up.
Speaker B:Yes.
Speaker B:It was at that moment when I knew.
Speaker B:And I got on the.
Speaker B:And I had called him.
Speaker B:I saw my exit coming up for my apartment for where I live.
Speaker B:And then I was just like, I was already Feeling, like, weird.
Speaker B:I was just like.
Speaker B:I called him and was like, yo, I think I'm gonna go ahead and go home.
Speaker B:It doesn't make sense for me to continue to drive, to go to another place, to probably indulge more in drinking, knowing where I have to come back and still drive back, which means I'll always be even more inebriated.
Speaker B:And then how that is gonna look, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:I was just like, no, I'm gonna go ahead and go home.
Speaker B:And then the disappointment in that phone call from him, and I was just like, are you good?
Speaker B:And he was just, oh, okay, okay.
Speaker B:Well, I mean, like.
Speaker B:And I'm like, well, are you.
Speaker B:Are you concerned about my safety or you concerned about turning up?
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:Oh, no, no.
Speaker B:I just used that as an example to know when I needed to listen to myself, when I could say, pause.
Speaker A:Okay, I see what you do.
Speaker C:Play.
Speaker B:Sorry, what?
Speaker A:No, I'm listening to you retweet.
Speaker A:Go ahead.
Speaker C:Wait, so really quick.
Speaker C:Were you completely done with your story, or did you have more to say in regard to it?
Speaker B:Oh, well, yeah, I made the phone call, and I told him that, and I didn't go.
Speaker B:I went home.
Speaker B:I went home, despite how he might have felt in that moment or whatever.
Speaker B:Like that wanted me to come, whatever that, But I still went home because I listened to myself and said, like, this is what you need to do.
Speaker B:And I did it.
Speaker A:Good.
Speaker C:I was gonna say, in light of what you said earlier about all the things that you were kind of actively fighting against when you were younger, I think a lot of times, on the consistent misconceptions that people have about libras and all of the ways that people will try to shame you for being a libra because of all the different things that they find to be negative about us, we will actively be so insecure, and we will kind of try to hide certain facets of ourselves, and we will try to manipulate.
Speaker C:And this is where the manipulation comes in.
Speaker C:We will try to manipulate other people into believing that we aren't who we are because we don't want to come across in the ways that we're negative.
Speaker C:And I think as we evolve, what happens is we stop caring.
Speaker C:And so important piece of what you just said in that story was like, okay, at the end of the day, like, I get where you're coming from, and it's fine that you feel that way, but at this time, I'm gonna do what's most important to me, and I' ma holler at you.
Speaker C:And I think in that, in a moment like, that is where you get to truly recognize for yourself, like, I have this freedom and this agency that comes about when I get older or as I continue to mature and evolve or whatever that looks like because you stopped caring so much.
Speaker C:I got to a point as to where instead of trying to deny certain aspects of myself, instead of trying to convince people of certain things, instead of trying to defend myself or justifying certain things, I got to a point as to where I really leaned in and I embraced it.
Speaker C:Everybody loves libras.
Speaker C:Everybody's just not a.
Speaker C:Some people are just ashamed to say so, and that's okay, and it's perfectly.
Speaker A:Fine because, you know, hey, yeah, but I, I, I.
Speaker A:Two things.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:You ready for this?
Speaker A:Y' all ready for this right here?
Speaker C:Lay it on me.
Speaker A:You said something, and I think you used.
Speaker A:There's a better word to use there that will help in a way with this transition.
Speaker A:And you said, listen to yourself, Right?
Speaker A:You remember?
Speaker A:And it's not about listening to yourself, especially when it comes to these decisions or these choices.
Speaker A:It's about trusting yourself like you have to.
Speaker A:When you actually trust and know what's for you and what it is.
Speaker A:That's.
Speaker A:This is walking in full libritude.
Speaker A:Made that word up.
Speaker A:It better be a word.
Speaker A:Libra tube.
Speaker A:This is my libratube.
Speaker A:You better deal with it.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:When you trust yourself and, you know, listen, if I go any further, I.
Speaker A:This might.
Speaker A:You might see me on the news.
Speaker A:Boom.
Speaker A:And I don't want.
Speaker A:I. I don't want to die.
Speaker A:I know you don't want me to die.
Speaker A:Or do you.
Speaker A:As you ask the question and your response.
Speaker A:And this was the, this was the pause.
Speaker A:Your response was, in that moment, you were ready to put.
Speaker A:Not you're ready to put yourself in.
Speaker A:In a.
Speaker A:In a vulnerable position where you put yourself last, but you acknowledged that the negative first, like.
Speaker A:And that's what you want to steer away from.
Speaker A:So what you would do is.
Speaker A:Which I'm glad you didn't do, because you're here.
Speaker A:You didn't do it, right.
Speaker B:Do what you did.
Speaker A:Go home.
Speaker A:Further.
Speaker A:You did go home.
Speaker B:No, I went home.
Speaker B:I went home.
Speaker A:High five.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:But, you know, you've acknowledged these things, and I think.
Speaker A:Let me ask you a question.
Speaker A:How did you feel when you were leaving?
Speaker A:What was on?
Speaker A:What was running through your mind?
Speaker B:I was leaving.
Speaker B:Like the original.
Speaker B:When we.
Speaker A:Yeah, when you.
Speaker A:What?
Speaker A:When you left or when you get.
Speaker A:When you had a Clearer thought, process of it.
Speaker A:What was your interaction like?
Speaker A:Were you sad for him?
Speaker A:Were you happy for you?
Speaker B:I was definitely more happy for me.
Speaker B:But I'm not gonna lie what I thought.
Speaker B:I immediately ran through all of this, especially that.
Speaker B:That night and even the next day, I ran through all the scenarios.
Speaker B:I was like, well, if he got a problem with it, then I can.
Speaker B:We don't have to be friends no motherfucking more.
Speaker B:Because at the end of the day, like, you don't.
Speaker A:You can't stop being a laborer.
Speaker A:Stop ready to cut people off.
Speaker B:I called him.
Speaker B:He's like, did he tell you what happened last night?
Speaker B:Da da da da.
Speaker B:Now he not answering phone calls.
Speaker B:Like, if that's how he feel, then fuck him.
Speaker B:Like, I don't care.
Speaker B:Like, at the end of the day, da da da.
Speaker B:Like, I went through all of that.
Speaker B:And then afterwards, like, eventually when he, like, came to, we had a conversation, and he wasn't like.
Speaker B:He wasn't, like, tripping on it like, that bad.
Speaker B:And he was just like, I actually.
Speaker B:I think that, you know, you did a.
Speaker C:You.
Speaker B:You should have did that.
Speaker B:And I should have also went home too.
Speaker B:That's what he said.
Speaker B:He was like, actually, I need to have more friends around that are like you.
Speaker B:That says enough is enough.
Speaker B:So you notice.
Speaker A:You notice.
Speaker A:Okay, so this is what people don't realize, especially when they talk about Libras.
Speaker A:And Christopher just said the same thing.
Speaker A:There are so many people that wish they can be.
Speaker A:I don't mean this in this way, y', all, but I do.
Speaker A:I do.
Speaker C:And y'.
Speaker A:All.
Speaker A:Y' all can take this how y' all want to.
Speaker A:I'm not saying that y' all wish y' all could be us.
Speaker A:I'm not.
Speaker A:But the.
Speaker A:The.
Speaker A:The level of care that we put into a situation, there are people that just don't do this.
Speaker C:Yeah.
Speaker A:And it becomes, like, envious in a way.
Speaker A:This is coming out even worse.
Speaker A:Um, I'm not saying this because everybody's like, fuck y'.
Speaker A:All.
Speaker A:Y' all so arrogant.
Speaker A:But he just said that that person wished that they would have did the same thing that you did.
Speaker A:Right.
Speaker A:You put you first.
Speaker A:You did what you needed to do.
Speaker A:And a lot of people don't do that.
Speaker A:And we.
Speaker A:And when we start doing that is when people really start, like, your Libra stuff really starts to kick in.
Speaker A:Because if you're in the people pleasing that people just think that you're just here just to, you know, like, you're a yes person.
Speaker A:So, like, yeah, sure.
Speaker A:Yeah, that looks cute on you.
Speaker A:Knowing that ain't your color, you know, like it's.
Speaker A:It's value.
Speaker C:And I was gonna say that's another part of that.
Speaker C:No, you're fine.
Speaker C:I was gonna say that's another part of that evolution as well.
Speaker C:Because I think when at certain points we were always kind of made to believe that we were so lovable.
Speaker C:So as we kind of grew, we got to that point as to where we wanted to be loved by everyone.
Speaker C:And so we got to a space as to where we need.
Speaker C:Felt the need to convince other people of why we were lovable.
Speaker C:And I think once you get to a place of evolution, you get to that space of understanding it's okay not to be loved by some people.
Speaker C:It's okay to not be everybody's cup.
Speaker C:It's okay to not be everybody's friend.
Speaker C:It's okay, like you said in regard to that space of cutting people off, it's okay to accept and recognize that it's fine to move on from certain people.
Speaker C:Somebody, the person.
Speaker C:So.
Speaker C:And I feel like we briefly talked about this.
Speaker C:The person that you and I know mutually, like probably where, how you know me.
Speaker C:We had stopped talking for seven months and then we started back talking.
Speaker C:I don't think we ever touched bases after he and I started back talking and we started back talking and we had a really important conversation.
Speaker C:And there were apologies and there was conversation about how, you know, bygones could be bygones and, you know, forgiveness was given and we were continuing to flow and trying to work on friendship.
Speaker C:And for me, I felt like it was still one of those things where I found myself kind of putting forth more effort.
Speaker C:I felt like I was overextending a little bit in areas where they were under extending.
Speaker C:And then I went to visit the city that they live in back in April of last year.
Speaker C:And I text and said that I made it, and I got a text back and said, welcome to Charlotte.
Speaker C:And that's the last time we spoken.
Speaker C:And so it's another one of those things as to where, like we had stopped talking, we had started talking again, and then now we're just not.
Speaker C: April of last year, April of: Speaker C:And for me, I think in my younger days, I think I would have fought so hard to try to seek to apologize for whatever it was that I did wrong and to try to make things better or even if it was from that space of wanting to be the bigger person.
Speaker C:Because I want so much to, like, have that pe and that balance, and I want to be.
Speaker C:To get along with everybody and for everything to be in perfect harmony and all of those different things.
Speaker C:I think, especially when you care.
Speaker C:Yeah.
Speaker C:And I do, genuinely.
Speaker C:But at this point, for me, I think it's also very important to recognize that sometimes beyond any reason, and you don't necessarily have to have one.
Speaker C:Like, I think sometimes we want to have.
Speaker C:We want to be able to justify it.
Speaker A:Something that's tangible.
Speaker C:Sometimes you don't necessarily have to have a reason and you can just move on and that be okay.
Speaker C:Hey, whatever it was when it was shout out to that.
Speaker C:We'll always have the fun times, you know, peace to them on their journey, God bless them.
Speaker C:We'll never wish them an ounce of harm.
Speaker C:But at this point in my life, with where I'm at, I understand that if it were meant to be, it would be, and I'm okay with it not being.
Speaker C:And I have to sleep peacefully at night about that.
Speaker C:I can't have stress about that.
Speaker C:I can't build up anxiety about that, because that's gonna slow down my process in other areas, and everything has to continue to fly.
Speaker A:Ladies and gentlemen, that is a.
Speaker A:That is.
Speaker A:These are two September Libras talking.
Speaker A:The October Libra in me is saying every.
Speaker A:Until you do right by me, everything you think about gonna crumble.
Speaker A:Okay?
Speaker A:Till you do right.
Speaker A:No, I'm just playing.
Speaker C:But they don't give that, like, God bless you.
Speaker A:It doesn't.
Speaker A:It really doesn't.
Speaker A:God bless you.
Speaker A:Have fun.
Speaker A:And here's the thing, because I think it's been my experience, and I've really learned to lead with that, right?
Speaker A:Because I'm not sitting here trying to tell you what it is, because this is just based on me walking this earth.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker B:God.
Speaker A:All the more that you.
Speaker A:I literally used to walk the streets with this T shirt and would just walk up to random people and go.
Speaker B:They punch you?
Speaker A:Have you seen my face?
Speaker A:Who's punching me?
Speaker A:I'm a Libra when it comes to trying to don't around and get punched.
Speaker A:I'm about to be 40.
Speaker A:I'm about to be 40.
Speaker A:I'm about to be four.
Speaker A:I'm living.
Speaker A:I'm not from Brooklyn.
Speaker A:Okay?
Speaker B:No, I said, but you wasn't in the box walking up the.
Speaker A:No, but I'm also smart.
Speaker A:I am aware.
Speaker A:Okay?
Speaker A:We ain't gonna.
Speaker A:Okay, yeah.
Speaker A:Cuddle up.
Speaker A:Dead man beat up in the Bronx today wearing a cuddle monster.
Speaker C:T shirt.
Speaker A:Thought he was a cuddle monster.
Speaker A:More at six.
Speaker A:No, with.
Speaker A:Ooh.
Speaker A:This train of thought is staying in the station.
Speaker A:When you try so hard to make people like you, it creates more resistance.
Speaker A:So why fight it?
Speaker A:Go girl, go.
Speaker C:Path of least resistance.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:Your Uber is outside.
Speaker A:Get in it and get the fuck out.
Speaker A:Like, and it's okay.
Speaker A:Like it just same thing Christopher said.
Speaker A:Like, oh my God.
Speaker A:And I don't want this to sound like the elders are.
Speaker A:No, no, no, you know, because you have number one great insight, you know, so.
Speaker B:Yeah, yeah, no, if anything it's just more confirmation of things that I already like feel or that I'm already experiencing that no one, I don't think that no one else is because I don't have a lot of people around anymore.
Speaker B:You know what I mean?
Speaker B:I don't just have people around right now.
Speaker B:I'm just in a place where I want intentional people to be around.
Speaker B:If it's dead weight or there's no value, I'm outta there, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:And I hit the reset button on my social life last year because I felt like that it was necessary, you know.
Speaker B:And to your point, like you said, like sometimes it doesn't, sometimes there's not a thorough explanation to give, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:Like sometimes it's just like, you know, we, we not on the same frequency, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:And it's no shade to you or whatever like that.
Speaker B:It's just, it's just we've gone as far as we were going to go, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:And so thank you.
Speaker B:Thank you.
Speaker B:You know what I mean?
Speaker A:Well, no, no, no.
Speaker C:I was gonna ask in regard to what you're saying specifically, and to be clear, this doesn't have to be in the episode.
Speaker C:I'm just asking so that I can know because I have been curious what you just said.
Speaker C:Does that apply to us?
Speaker B:What do you mean?
Speaker B:Does it apply to you?
Speaker C:Relate back to what you just said as far as you resetting your social life and kind of getting to that point as to where you felt like you had gotten, if you had gotten.
Speaker C:And there was no point to go beyond because I did feel like at one point we were kind of consistently communicating and establishing a friendship and it kind of fell off a cliff.
Speaker B:Yeah, it did fall off a cliff.
Speaker B:But I feel like that that was like, I mean, I think we both was driving that car, but it wasn't just like one, one sided.
Speaker B:I don't think it was nothing, but it also wasn't nothing personal.
Speaker B:I think the experiences that I'm talking about, like, people that I've, like, you know, have, like, known for a little bit, like, in person.
Speaker B:And I feel like our.
Speaker B:Not to, like, devalue our, like, friendship or connection that we were forming or that we had, you know, regardless if it was virtual or not.
Speaker B:I feel like we were, like, kind of getting there, but I also, like, got off of that other platform, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:And I feel like a lot of it, like, was there and we just kind of like, you know, it just kind of just stopped.
Speaker B:I don't think that there's, like, a somebody to blame.
Speaker B:I think that's what I said.
Speaker B:I think we both just kind of just, you know, we just kept it moving without any type of, you know, ill feelings at all.
Speaker B:It's just one of those things that just kind of, like, dropped down.
Speaker C:My feelings were slightly ill.
Speaker C:But that's why at the end, when you were checking my temperature earlier, I thought that was what it was in regard to.
Speaker C:Cause I was like, well, maybe it's like, kind of sitting.
Speaker C:Sensed that whatever was whatever.
Speaker C:But it wasn't like anything, like, negative towards or against so much as it was like, what am I thinking?
Speaker C:I guess profitless investment.
Speaker C:It was kind of like I felt myself trying to kind of.
Speaker C:I guess I saw something that was there and I wanted to expound upon it outside of that space even.
Speaker C:You know, at one point we were there and we were doing the family thing and we were trying to create a show and do all the things.
Speaker C:I think for me, on some level, it was like, I would like to create something deeper and more meaningful.
Speaker C:And not to say that, like, there wasn't.
Speaker C:There was resistance and I pushed further, and then I was met with rejection.
Speaker C:So, like you said, it's not to put it off on you as if to say, like, oh, I tried and then you didn't.
Speaker C:So I gave up.
Speaker C:But more or less it was kind of like, well, oh, well, damn.
Speaker C:Haven't talked to that person for a long time.
Speaker C:And then when he brought you up, it was kind of like, oh, okay, that's an interesting blast from the past because we hadn't talked.
Speaker C:And so for me, I think coming into the conversation and then having the engagement, I had decided prior to.
Speaker C:Because this has been, like, in the works from my understanding, for, like, three weeks.
Speaker C:I had decided prior to not to address it.
Speaker C:What are you jamming to, sir?
Speaker C:I decided from solange continue.
Speaker C:I had decided not to address it, but when you just said that, that made me curious.
Speaker C:So, yeah, that was.
Speaker A:Ladies, Ladies and gentlemen, this is how adults, Libras, we deal with conflict.
Speaker A:We address it respectfully and then we move on.
Speaker A:And, you know, nobody gets all.
Speaker A:It be y' all Scorpios, y' all Virgos, y' all earth signs, y' all water signs, y' all, y' all fire signs.
Speaker A:Calm down.
Speaker A:Get you some air in your life.
Speaker A:Okay, Breathe, bitch.
Speaker A:Sorry, that was aggressive.
Speaker A:And it should be.
Speaker A:It's Libra.
Speaker A:It's almost the end of Libra season.
Speaker A:I'm listening and I am the last day.
Speaker A:We got a few more days.
Speaker B:I was about to say, aren't you the last day?
Speaker A:I am.
Speaker A:Close this bitch out and y' all gonna know.
Speaker C:But in regards to what you just said, I can definitely relate to that.
Speaker A:Um.
Speaker C:And yeah, that was a big part of my experience.
Speaker C:Just like learning and understanding in a moment.
Speaker C:Like, okay, this doesn't have to be perfect.
Speaker C:This doesn't have to be peaceful.
Speaker C:There doesn't have to be any, you know, resolution or joy or harmony.
Speaker C:At this point, I can just move on and be okay to make room for whatever is meant.
Speaker C:Cause a lot of times we don't even recognize what's not meant for us until we learn to move things out of our way.
Speaker C:Like, oh, damn.
Speaker C:This whole time I've been thinking that this was gonna be like life lasting.
Speaker C:And that this was just meant to be and that me and this person are soulmates.
Speaker C:And look at me now.
Speaker C:I just thought about this person for the first time in a year.
Speaker C:And at one point I thought I couldn't breathe without him.
Speaker A:Can't breathe without.
Speaker C:I was thinking about a Brandy song when I said it, but it's good times.
Speaker C:But.
Speaker A:What Brandy song?
Speaker C:Yeah, I'm gonna tell you what it is in a minute.
Speaker C:Cause I got it in my head.
Speaker C:I just can't think.
Speaker C:I gotta get all the lyrics formed.
Speaker C:We're all good.
Speaker A:It.
Speaker B:I had another.
Speaker B:Another question.
Speaker C:Yes.
Speaker B:What do you guys feel as though is your Libra superpower?
Speaker A:He just answered it.
Speaker A:He didn't even hear it.
Speaker A:No, no, you heard.
Speaker C:You heard me.
Speaker A:I put it right here.
Speaker A:No.
Speaker B:Oh, God.
Speaker C:Sex.
Speaker A:So I was just having this conversation after fucking.
Speaker C:I love you.
Speaker A:I love you with all my heart.
Speaker A:I do.
Speaker C:Keep going.
Speaker A:And they said to me something that was so powerful and all I could do was, I'm a Libra.
Speaker A:It was like sex with you is not like anything I've ever Had before.
Speaker A:And, like, you pay attention to me in great detail.
Speaker A:And it's like, you.
Speaker C:You.
Speaker A:You make me feel seen with my eyes closed.
Speaker A:Like, I know you're paying attention.
Speaker A:I know sex is one of my superpowers.
Speaker A:It's.
Speaker A:It's.
Speaker A:It's actually a main one.
Speaker A:But I can't give that to everybody because then what do I have for myself?
Speaker A:What do I have for that special person?
Speaker A:I have given it to all just.
Speaker C:Out here saving the world, just saving.
Speaker A:The world, just saving lives.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:Just.
Speaker A:You know, I'm watching Grey's Anatomy again.
Speaker A:But my superpower is the ability to create connection and also reconnection, I. E. The two of you.
Speaker A:So, like, this is something that I have been.
Speaker A:I have been blessed to know that I can.
Speaker A:I can curate something.
Speaker A:Because we were talking about, like, not even just the sex.
Speaker A:We were talking about group sex.
Speaker A:And I was like, I. I am great at curating a group, great night with people because I know people.
Speaker A:Because I'm a. I'm a. I'm a pay attention of how people.
Speaker A:Not how their mind works.
Speaker C:Like, you love heads.
Speaker C:And I know the perfect person to.
Speaker A:Invite him for that, who's actually good at it.
Speaker A:But.
Speaker A:But a little bit deeper than that because, like.
Speaker A:Because I also, for a long period of time, I want to be a sex therapist.
Speaker A:I want to go into that.
Speaker A:That line of therapy, like, to help couples.
Speaker A:But there's a level of connection that I know because libras are social butterflies that still hates people.
Speaker A:Because y' all.
Speaker A:People are dumb.
Speaker A:People are dumb.
Speaker B:Yes.
Speaker A:There's a.
Speaker A:There's a power in knowing what works and what doesn't and being okay with it without trying to create resistance by forcing it.
Speaker D:It.
Speaker A:That's my long answer, short answer.
Speaker A:Sex.
Speaker B:Love.
Speaker C:That I was gonna say.
Speaker C:So, interestingly enough, same short answer.
Speaker C:For the long answer, I will say mine is love.
Speaker C:And what I have learned about myself as I have gotten older is that I have been able to formulate it in a way.
Speaker C:And it's so amazing how it works, because I think when I was younger, I was looking for somewhere to place it, so it was very much here.
Speaker C:This is my love.
Speaker C:I want you to have it.
Speaker C:I want you to take it, and I want for it to heal you, and I want for it to make you better, and I want for it to change your life.
Speaker C:And I want you to recognize all the greatness that comes from me because of it.
Speaker C:But now what I've done on the flip of that is I've taken It and I've almost like formulated into this ball and I've absorbed it.
Speaker C:And so now it's so ingrained in me as to where I'm able.
Speaker C:Not only is it love, but it's also awareness.
Speaker C:So in a lot of ways what I'm able to do now is I'm able to love other people from a safe enough distance as to where I can't be harmed because of the love that I give.
Speaker C:I'm able to love myself so much as to where I am able to discern when there are people that come into my space that don't deserve my love.
Speaker C:I think for a long time I used to battle with that because I would keep people around for a while and I'd give them second chances and I'd give them third and fourth and fifth and sixth chances to see if maybe, oh well, let me not run at the first sign of trouble or let me not be so hard on them because they seem like they're doing something similar to what somebody else has done.
Speaker C:And I would strive to kind of maybe still be open to that idea of giving love to people who maybe didn't deserve it.
Speaker C:But now I think what has happened for me, it creates defenses for me in certain ways that allow me to not necessarily disconnect, but not ever get to that place of connection with certain people who are not meant to be in my space.
Speaker C:So I think in a lot of ways it protects me.
Speaker C:What it does is I recognize on a day to day basis as I have interactions with other people based on how I love, with the sincerity, with the level of compassion, with the genuineness, with how I'm endearing, how I'm thoughtful, how I'm very intentional about how I give advisement and care to others.
Speaker C:It heals.
Speaker C:So it protects.
Speaker C:It heals in a lot of ways in different spaces it sustains.
Speaker C:So yeah, if I had to say for sure, I would definitely say that my and, and, and I believe and I'm saying these things to say and I'm applying it back to the original questions.
Speaker C:I feel like that's ingrained in all of us.
Speaker C:We all on some level have that capability whether we tapped into it or not.
Speaker C:So I definitely think for myself I have formulated it in a way as to where it has become a super from me.
Speaker C:Because we love hard.
Speaker C:I think it's just about getting to a place as to where we can properly learn how to use the love to benefit us as to where it doesn't harm or hinder us in any.
Speaker A:Way or force us to hinder someone else.
Speaker A:Because love can do that.
Speaker A:Because, you know.
Speaker A:Wait.
Speaker A:Before you answer yours, Christopher, I adore you.
Speaker C:You're so sweet.
Speaker A:It's so.
Speaker A:It's so crazy.
Speaker A:It's so crazy because it's not.
Speaker A:It goes beyond sex.
Speaker A:Like, I. I'm not, like.
Speaker A:Even if you're not sexual, like, even with, like, people.
Speaker A:Like, I'm not fucking, like, females, because I'm not for the bitches.
Speaker A:I mean, I'm for you sisters.
Speaker A:I'm for you.
Speaker A:I'm s. I'm not.
Speaker A:But, you know, for you.
Speaker A:You know, sorry, but no, I'm strictly.
Speaker C:But go ahead.
Speaker A:But being able to.
Speaker A:To have connection and be seen as something that a lot of people want and are striving for.
Speaker A:And I just want to make people feel seen, feel heard, feel respected, feel too bad.
Speaker C:I got this cup.
Speaker C:When you get it, you're going to lose your shit.
Speaker A:I'm done with you.
Speaker A:I've gotten it.
Speaker A:Now, what about you?
Speaker A:What about you?
Speaker C:What about you?
Speaker B:Yeah, So I would say I've learned that my super power is my vulnerability.
Speaker A:Your bone.
Speaker A:I'm sorry?
Speaker C:He said his bone.
Speaker B:He said what?
Speaker C:What did it sound like?
Speaker C:He said bone.
Speaker A:Your bone.
Speaker A:Bone ability.
Speaker B:I was like, oh, God, no.
Speaker A:I was like, yeah, I'm being silly.
Speaker A:I'm being silly.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker B:My bones.
Speaker C:All you want to me.
Speaker C:No, I'm sorry.
Speaker B:And being able to also make other people feel safe and vulnerable, that's something that I didn't, like, I've been able to do since I was like, a child, which I never really.
Speaker B:Didn't really know that.
Speaker B:But as time go on, goes on, goes on, and I realize there's been times where people would confess things to me that they're just like.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker A:Of course, within five minutes you'll be telling me your life story.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:Yeah, sure.
Speaker A:Go ahead.
Speaker B:You know what I mean?
Speaker B:It's always been that way.
Speaker B:I didn't ask for it.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:But sometimes I do.
Speaker B:Like pride, but it's only because I'm actually invested.
Speaker B:And sometimes people don't get that.
Speaker B:Where people don't actually get that, you don't even acts, huh?
Speaker C:You're welcoming.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker B:You know what I mean?
Speaker B:But there is a sense of safety.
Speaker B:Even though I know I say that I don't hate people.
Speaker B:That's the fucking weird thing about just being dumb.
Speaker A:It's okay.
Speaker B:You can act like they are, but it's just like at the same time, I actually really do.
Speaker B:I can have the capability, the capacity to actually really give a real fuck about.
Speaker A:The thing about.
Speaker B:Is that no one ever.
Speaker A:You let me correct you because our last guest gave us a great line, which was, I don't give a fuck, but I actually give a damn.
Speaker B:I like that.
Speaker A:That was.
Speaker B:I like that.
Speaker C:Why you.
Speaker B:Yeah, all of that.
Speaker B:But.
Speaker A:But yeah, I keep interrupting you, so I'm so sorry because I know how much we hate that.
Speaker A:Go ahead.
Speaker B:But yeah, I think that the funny thing about that, though, that's.
Speaker B:I guess the flip side is that it's always like me being able to be that for other people, but, like, not necessarily, like, for myself, but I don't know if that.
Speaker B:Does superpower work that way?
Speaker A:It works that way in time, or.
Speaker B:Is it for somebody else, you know, is it to serve or is it to, you know, the opposite way around?
Speaker B:I don't know.
Speaker A:That's a really great question because I've always said this and people ask me, like, what is my purpose?
Speaker A:And as I.
Speaker A:As I've gotten older, I know that my purpose, one of my main purposes.
Speaker A:Purposes in life, is to be of service.
Speaker A:And I am okay with that.
Speaker A:Like, I love to help my.
Speaker A:Anybody will tell you, if he hasn't asked you how can I help you, or you need help with anything, then he doesn't give a fuck about you.
Speaker A:And that's just how I.
Speaker C:Be right back.
Speaker A:So he's just going to bathroom right quick.
Speaker A:So it's really important to know if your.
Speaker A:If your need or desire for people to share, to help is hurting you in the process.
Speaker A:Meaning can you separate yourself from it?
Speaker A:Can you pull yourself out of it and still be there in support or be there to listen or be there as a friend or just let.
Speaker A:Let them be so they can feel safe.
Speaker A:Because, you know, again, safety is important.
Speaker A:But don't get wrapped in it, you know, because as you get.
Speaker A:As you know, as you evolve.
Speaker A:Let's not say as you get older, as you evolve, because I love the way you ask that question.
Speaker A:These little things will start paying attention a little bit more and more and more and more.
Speaker A:I don't claim to know everything, but I know a lot you know.
Speaker A:And I know based on.
Speaker A:I study people not how people think, because I don't know what's going on inside your head.
Speaker A:You study people's actions because their actions show you what they're thinking.
Speaker A:Sometimes their actions don't match their words, but their actions, because they don't know what they're thinking itself.
Speaker A:They're thinking, and they're doing, baby, those will match.
Speaker A:But what you're doing is showing, you know, and it's just like, okay, that's what you want to do.
Speaker A:That's a choice.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker A:Do you?
Speaker B:But I do realize that that's a part of that also of distancing myself, you know, sometimes, like, from people, because I don't want to.
Speaker B:You don't get to experience all of this.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker A:And then it's because it's not reciprocated in the way that we do.
Speaker A:And so it's.
Speaker A:It's.
Speaker A:It's almost as if you're pouring all of you, and you're like getting a Dripple.
Speaker A:And they always say, you know, you don't.
Speaker A:You know, you don't do that.
Speaker A:But that is a Libra trait that we have to learn.
Speaker A:Okay, this is enough for now.
Speaker A:This is enough for today.
Speaker A:And like, my son will tell me all the time, he said, are you liberating right now?
Speaker A:And I'm like.
Speaker A:Cause he's like, you've been disappeared for like a week.
Speaker A:And I'm like, yeah, I just.
Speaker A:I. I'm good.
Speaker A:He's like.
Speaker A:And he's like, I know you're good, but I just want to make sure a check in.
Speaker A:And I have all these friends, air quotations.
Speaker A:All these people that I know.
Speaker A:Air quotations.
Speaker A:Cause I don't know this host, but all these people who know my name.
Speaker A:Um, and I can think, even though I was upset and sad, that my phone was turned off for like a week and some change.
Speaker A:Was I worried?
Speaker A:Because when it came on, was there a slow up of voice messages or.
Speaker A:Well, there's not, because it's gonna say your phone is disconnected.
Speaker A:There was no other way for those people didn't reach out to me and say, hey, I noticed your phone was off.
Speaker A:Are you okay?
Speaker A:Not a single person.
Speaker A:So I'm okay at this level of solitude.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker A:But solitude can jade you for a while.
Speaker A:It can make you let me backtrack.
Speaker A:It's been my experience, and I don't want to speak for everybody, but solitude has a way of tricking you.
Speaker A:I. E. Me that no one gives a damn.
Speaker B:Okay.
Speaker A:And that's not always the case, you know, because there's this thing called object permeance where if it's not.
Speaker A:If you don't.
Speaker A:If I don't see this pen every day, I'm gonna forget about this pen.
Speaker A:But the moment I see it, I know it's there.
Speaker A:So I'm like, oh, I pick it up, but the pen's gonna be mad.
Speaker A:Cause it's been in the bedroom all this time.
Speaker A:He hasn't picked me up all this time.
Speaker A:He don't care about me.
Speaker A:This is what happens when Christopher walks away.
Speaker C:A few things to touch on because I heard everything while I was gone.
Speaker C:Are you talking about DeShawn?
Speaker A:Yes.
Speaker C:Perfect.
Speaker C:And then in regard to what you were saying, I think what happens is that when, prior to the evolution, it's like, here we are, and we're these little fluttering caterpillars, and we're out here, and we're just very curious and explorative, and we're living, and we're kind of a little bit more aimless, and we're figuring things out.
Speaker C:And then what happens?
Speaker C:And it happens at different periods.
Speaker C:It's almost like, bitch, I'm a cocoon it.
Speaker C:And then I'm a butterfly.
Speaker C:It's like, okay, you would think that because I was the butterfly, that I was gonna remain the butterfly.
Speaker C:And now we just out here flying.
Speaker C:But nope, guess what?
Speaker C:Cocooning it again.
Speaker C:Because we have to have moments where we kind of go inward and we go into solitude because need periods of restoration.
Speaker C:We need periods to be by ourselves, to really analyze and observe and determine our next moves and determine exactly where we are in our own space before we allow other people into the space.
Speaker C:And so a lot of times, like PJ mentioned, in regard to, like, it being lonely and somewhat isolating, it can be that.
Speaker C:But it's also something that's so very beneficial, and you may not be able to recognize the benefit of it right now, because it does feel lonely.
Speaker C:And like you said earlier, it's like, oh, I don't like people, but I so long for community.
Speaker C:You, me, same.
Speaker C:Because I feel that very same way.
Speaker C:However, I'm also aware that if there were people around me right now in this transitional period that I'm in, as I'm going to where I'm going, I would be distracted.
Speaker C:Things would move a lot slower than they're moving.
Speaker C:I wouldn't necessarily have as clear vision as I have towards what I'm wanting, because I would be focusing a lot more on them and their needs and what they want and how to make them feel good as opposed to doing everything that I can to take care of myself.
Speaker C:So I think for me, in this period, especially from where we were talking about as far as evolution, I think it's so important sometimes to just take note of those moments when they occur and lean into Em.
Speaker C:And it's hard because it's like you long.
Speaker C:It's hard to long for something that you can't see yourself actually having in the moment.
Speaker C:It's like I want this so badly, but it's not coming.
Speaker C:And then in the meantime I don't know where to get it because that's also this thing of like take Libra out of the equation.
Speaker C:It's like what is adult friendships and how do we curate and maintain them?
Speaker A:But.
Speaker C:But I think it's just really important to recognize the significance of that and how beneficial it is for us in the long run.
Speaker C:And just leaning into that cocoon process and like allowing yourself to become that butterfly over time.
Speaker C:And then once you need another one, take you another one.
Speaker C:No, baby, you good?
Speaker C:Go ahead.
Speaker A:There's where and there's absolutely no.
Speaker C:I was away in the bathroom so I had to come back and fill up the space.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:Cause we were just talking.
Speaker A:Talking.
Speaker A:But there's actually once again there is no right or wrong choice.
Speaker A:There's just a choice that you make.
Speaker A:What works for you is what works.
Speaker A:And if you make a choice and you feel like it was the wrong choice, she agrees.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:That just means that there was a better choice to make.
Speaker A:That's all that means.
Speaker A:Doesn't mean that it was the wrong.
Speaker A:You ain't kill nobody now.
Speaker A:If you kill somebody, that's the wrong choice, child.
Speaker C:But also recognizing that again, I don't.
Speaker A:Know why it's so hard.
Speaker B:But then again I think that that's a challenge for me.
Speaker B:And one of the things I was gonna ask you guys was do you feel like the zodiac signs of your like whoever raised you like also played some type of role in your.
Speaker C:God bless both of them Scorpios on their journey.
Speaker C:We're not gonna talk about that here.
Speaker A:And we are not gonna talk about any Virgos here.
Speaker B:God bless both of them.
Speaker C:Scorpio.
Speaker B:I know that like my mom is a Leo and I was raised just by her.
Speaker B:So she her not to say that she's perfect or that she's not.
Speaker C:Was that exciting for you?
Speaker C:Did you have a fun childhood?
Speaker B:But she also.
Speaker B:Leos are very.
Speaker B:They know what they want.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:They are.
Speaker B:That's what I admire about Leos.
Speaker B:My ex boyfriend was a Leo.
Speaker B:I've been surrounded by Leos.
Speaker B:They are very go getting like people.
Speaker B:They're very strong minded.
Speaker B:It's almost like they know what to do step by step.
Speaker B:You know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:I don't it's like that.
Speaker B:And when you're raised by that, when you're not necessarily that you feel that kind of, like, voice in your head or that pressure of that way.
Speaker B:So it's just like, you know, I don't know.
Speaker B:I don't know if that.
Speaker B:If anybody else, like, you know, you.
Speaker A:Do know, use the words.
Speaker A:Continue.
Speaker C:No, I wanted to say, interestingly, one thing that I had to learn was that every day is a new opportunity to get things right.
Speaker C:And no matter how bad you may feel, you mess something up today, it's not to the point as to where it's irreparable.
Speaker C:So if you lean into that concept and you learn to trust yourself a little bit more, it helps you in the process of making those choices.
Speaker C:Like, as long as you're not.
Speaker C:These are the things that I think about when it comes to decision making for me.
Speaker C:Is this going to put me in the position as to where I'm homeless?
Speaker C:So if it comes down to spending some money, like, if it comes down to spending some money and it's like, okay, bitch, I really want this thing, but if I get this thing, I'm not going to be able to pay my bills and I'm going to be on the street.
Speaker C:Yeah, let me not get that thing.
Speaker C:Now that's a major determining factor.
Speaker C:Am I going to find myself behind bars?
Speaker C:I bet this motherfucker done pissed me off and now I'm about to crash out.
Speaker C:However, if I go over there right now, in this moment, I may lose capacity for sanity and I might murder.
Speaker C:That's why I go for it.
Speaker C:So in that, let me not go over there right now because I don't want to go to prison.
Speaker C:Will I put myself in harm's way?
Speaker C:Is me making this choice going to put me in the position as to where I could potentially become safe, find myself in danger, or find myself in a space as to where I could be really harmed by this?
Speaker C:There are a couple other major ones.
Speaker C:And there, of course, are things that fall under those umbrella, but if they don't fall into those categories, it's kind of.
Speaker C:It is what it is.
Speaker C:And honestly, I know we want so much to feel like it's the perfectionist in you, and that's something that we all kind of struggle with as well.
Speaker C:We want so much to make sure that we're doing everything right and that everything is in line and that all the ducks are in the row and all the I's are dotted and all the T's are crossed.
Speaker C:But at the End of the day, if they're not what's going to happen.
Speaker A:You're going.
Speaker C:You may be a little disappointed.
Speaker C:You might not be happy with the results, but guess what?
Speaker C:You're still here.
Speaker C:And you still have the opportunity to pivot.
Speaker C:The power of the pivot.
Speaker C:And I know that we're hearing about that so much more in life now as people are talking about just progress and mental health and all the different things.
Speaker C:The power of the pivot is something that's so amazing because no matter where you land yourself, as long as you don't put yourself into the place as to where it's irreparable, you can always adjust.
Speaker C:Maybe, okay, I tried it this way and it didn't work that way.
Speaker C:So now I just need to tweak this.
Speaker C:Or I recognize from testing this theory that.
Speaker C:That maybe if I just wouldn't have done it this way and done it that way, it would have worked out differently.
Speaker C:It's almost like you have to treat your life sometimes as a science experiment, and you have to experiment with it and take time.
Speaker C:You have to come up with a hypothesis and you have to put in the work, and then you have to kind of take those results and come up with a conclusion.
Speaker C:And you have to keep doing, like, seriously, like we're going through the whole.
Speaker A:Scientific method, just looking at it.
Speaker C:Like, you have to do that over and over again and give yourself the grace in that.
Speaker C:Because I think, honestly, a lot of times what we can do is, number one, you're gonna drive yourself fucking crazy.
Speaker C:Let's start there.
Speaker C:If you just wanna put it all out on the table, you're gonna drive yourself fucking nuts.
Speaker C:But also, taking away.
Speaker C:Yeah, taking away from that also, you're gonna hinder yourself in a lot of ways from being able to experience some things that maybe are meant for you to experience.
Speaker C:Maybe you're meant to have that level of disappointment right now.
Speaker C:Maybe you're meant to st in this direction.
Speaker C:Maybe right now you're meant to have this experience so that you can learn this lesson that's going to prepare you for the greatness that's to come.
Speaker C:A lot of.
Speaker C:A lot of times, like where we are right now.
Speaker C:And the things that we're enduring, the things that we're maybe struggling with, the things that we're being forced to take on are the things that are preparing us to be able to manage what it is that we're ultimately gonna be put in the position to oversee in our lives.
Speaker C:Whether it's wealth, whether it's fame, Whether it's success, whether it's, you know, whatever these big monumental things are that we're striving for, the only way that we're ever gonna be able to face those pressures is if we can prove to ourselves that we can withstand these.
Speaker C:And so sometimes you have to be willing to take chances, sometimes you have to be willing to take risk.
Speaker C:Sometimes you have to be willing to, in a moment, instinctively and without question, pause and say, you know what?
Speaker C:I'm not gonna think about this anymore.
Speaker C:I'm just gonna do it, fuck it.
Speaker C:And whatever happens, happens.
Speaker C:And beyond this moment, it's scary and I don't know, but I'm just gonna go and just go and let that be that and understand that you can appreciate it.
Speaker B:But I'm sorry, it's like I've had those like moments before, like as you were talking, like, like even me moving here, like moving to Atlanta, like that was, that was one of those moments.
Speaker B:Although, but I mean, I set myself up right, so that way, you know that.
Speaker B:But there was still some level of like, I don't know, no fucking body here, you know, saying like, oh, I don't know anybody that close, you know, there's no family, there's no like bestie, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker B:Like that it's just kind of like, oh no, you know what I'm saying?
Speaker A:That makes you learn to rely on yourself because you don't learn how to deal with.
Speaker A:Because we are built in pairs, Libras are built in pairs, we work better with people.
Speaker A:But now you get to rely on yourself, listen to yourself, then trust yourself that you know what you're talking about, about.
Speaker A:You don't need the validation or approval of others.
Speaker A:You do need the companionship every now and again.
Speaker A:So like that's human nature.
Speaker A:Like unfortunately.
Speaker C:And you're building, you're building character and you're also building self concept because as like he said, you're learning to trust and depend and rely on yourself.
Speaker C:So it's like, okay, well if it would have been if think about it from this place, somebody said this the other day and it was so important.
Speaker C:We don't recognize a lot of times that the thoughts that we have are not even our thoughts, that society's thoughts, that's culture's thoughts, that's our parents thoughts.
Speaker C:All these things that have been instilled in us.
Speaker C:And once you put yourself in that position where beyond any given thing else.
Speaker C:Move the fuck to China.
Speaker C:Who the fuck do you know in China?
Speaker C:Move the fuck to China next month.
Speaker C:Just move to China and watch how much as an individual you grow and how much more you start to feel in tune with who you are and how you think and the things that you desire and the space that you enjoy taking up and all the ways that you enjoy being present in the world.
Speaker C:Because those are the things that are most significant when you die right in that moment, before you take that last breath, those are gonna be the things that you reflect on and that you appreciate and that you found value in.
Speaker C:You're not gonna think like, oh, I'm gonna miss my cousin so much.
Speaker C:You're gonna think, oh, I'm so grateful that I took the chance and I did that.
Speaker C:I'm so grateful that I had this experience.
Speaker C:I'm so grateful that I decided to do this and that it turned out this and way, way.
Speaker B:Yeah, that is.
Speaker B:That's.
Speaker B:That's true.
Speaker B:That's true.
Speaker C:Baby.
Speaker C:I'm with you.
Speaker C:2, 206.
Speaker A:So, you know, I'm gonna.
Speaker A:We're gonna pivot right here right quick.
Speaker A:Kwame, if you could do me a favor and just hand me your keys.
Speaker A:Thank you so much.
Speaker A:We greatly appreciate you driving this car.
Speaker A:You have done us wonderful.
Speaker A:We have gotten to our destination safely and we had a great conversation on the way, but thank you.
Speaker A:Give me Wada.
Speaker C:Thank you so much.
Speaker C:Thank you.
Speaker C:And I dare say that it would be great to have you back sometime.
Speaker A:I dare.
Speaker A:Was not gonna say anything until I heard his confirmation first.
Speaker A:Yes, I would.
Speaker A:Yes, we would love to.
Speaker A:The Libra connection is amazing.
Speaker A:Thank you so much for being, like the host of the show and joining us.
Speaker A:Question for you.
Speaker A:Where can everybody find you?
Speaker B:So you can find me on Instagram kwametheone.
Speaker B:That's K W a M e T H e o N e or on TikTok ibecreator C I B E C R E A T O R. Every.
Speaker A:Libra needs to have some type of something that's we are the one.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:Cause if you're not, you need to step into your libertude.
Speaker A:Libertude.
Speaker A:Christopher, go ahead.
Speaker A:Would you like to give that.
Speaker A:Would you like to give out our line?
Speaker A:Would you like to give out our closing?
Speaker C:You pussy bitch.
Speaker A:Pussy ass medical with that.
Speaker C:Thank you all so much for joining us.
Speaker C:If you are a returning listener, we definitely thank you for joining us again.
Speaker C:If this was your first time and you got this far, we are so grateful that you decided to stick it out with us.
Speaker C:We definitely hope that you come back.
Speaker C:Definitely share the podcast with somebody that you know, tell a friend to tell a friend.
Speaker C:We would love more listenership.
Speaker C:Let somebody know who you think would benefit from it.
Speaker C:Let somebody know who you think would be willing to participate in this conversation and join us in this conversation.
Speaker C:Anytime that you feel like you have an opinion, if you heard something that you loved, share it with us.
Speaker C:If you heard something that you agreed with, if you heard something that you disagreed with, and maybe you decide that you want to challenge something that one or both of us said, feel free to do that.
Speaker C:But as always, you can do that on either social media platform.
Speaker C:In the comments, you can send us an email, whatever you want to do to get into touch with us.
Speaker C:But as always, we know that your time is valuable and that you can spend it anywhere, and we are always grateful that you take a little bit of your time to spend with us.
Speaker C:And per usual, we love you and there's nothing that you can do about it.
Speaker C:If you got the number, texted, holla.
Speaker A:That's it.
Speaker A:Yeah, I think that's.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:So anything you want to say last.
Speaker A:Your last, last.
Speaker C:Leave the people with something special.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:Let them know that you were here.
Speaker A:You want to leave your footprint on the sands of time.
Speaker B:No, I was going to say thank you so much for the invitation.
Speaker B:This was very insightful.
Speaker B:A little bit healing, too.
Speaker B:Didn't expect, but, yeah, I think that.
Speaker C:Dj, like, that's just what we do.
Speaker A:Shaking my titties.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker B:But, yes, thank you for inviting me on.
Speaker B:I think you guys are doing great with your podcast, and I just hope that you continue to grow and continue to impact as many lives as you possibly can by just being yourselves.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker A:If you can do me away and put your guns away, because you don't need to be showing me all of those arm muscles.
Speaker A:Okay, so what?
Speaker A:You lift a couple of pounds.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:So what?
Speaker A:Good for you.
Speaker A:I'm jealous.
Speaker C:I'm jealous.
Speaker A:I'm jealous.
Speaker A:You know, and that's the truth.
Speaker A:Hey, I'm honest.
Speaker A:No, thank you so much.
Speaker A:And always, guys, come back for more.
Speaker A:And we got one more week of Libra season, because guess what, baby?
Speaker A:That's my birthday the 22nd.
Speaker A:All right?
